Kindergarten girls receive love letters, the content of which makes parents break their defenses!
Students in adolescence usually have an inexplicable affection and interest in their hearts, unconsciously pay attention to their own image, and want to show the best side to others.
Teenagers are often poetic"This statement is not unfounded. When elementary school students have a crush on someone, they unconsciously want to give them something better, and this is not limited to elementary and middle school students.
With the rapid development of the Internet, the age of Internet users is showing a trend of getting younger and younger. At the same time, elementary school students are becoming more and more precocious. Not only elementary school students have emotional entanglements, but kindergarten students also have emotional entanglements, and they express their emotions in a more direct way.
In kindergarten, the girls receive love letters, but the content catches their parents off guard: Was this too ahead of their time? As the saying goes"Three-year-old looks big"Everyone's personality and temper are different. If elementary school students show a fairly high level of emotional intelligence from an early age, then their future will not be too bad.
Some time ago, a little boy in kindergarten to a girl"Gift"A note that reads:"I love you and grow up to be my wife, okay"。This move has attracted the attention of many parents, who lament that today's primary school students are too precocious and know it at a young age"The first strike is stronger"。
A father shared the letter his daughter received online"Love letters"。My daughter, who is in kindergarten, came home and handed the note to her mother. When she saw the contents of the letter, she couldn't help but laugh. The note reads:"I love you and be my wife when you grow up, okay? This caught the parents off guard, thinking that this way of confession was too advanced at the time.
The mother looked at the note and smiled, while the daughter said that she only recognized her own name and"Great"、"Mother"Two words. When reading the text, she deliberately pretended not to know the keywords, but her clever daughter guessed the general content and said with a smile"Yes"。This made the mother even more unbearable, thinking that her daughter was so young, how could she have such a precocious confession?
Although it is undeniable that the boy's attitude showed a certain sincerity, and one will remain in the future"Commitment", but the girl's parents still felt a little caught off guard. At a young age, you have to beware of a boy against his own daughter"Thought-provoking", which makes people feel a little ridiculous.
The affection and enthusiasm of young children is usually simple and pure, and there is no need to worry too much. These emotions may change in the near future, as their emotions tend to be fleeting, and who can predict what will happen to them when they enter primary school?
Of course, it is also necessary for parents to communicate carefully with each other and share what happened so that the other party does not fall into confusion. By communicating in advance, both parents are better able to cope with possible situations, create better outcomes, and leave their children with more enjoyable childhood memories.
In my opinion, a lot of students go through it"Receiving love letters"of the stage, this is not surprising. Young parents should have a broader vision and forward thinking, rather than being too rigid like the older generation, which will only have a negative impact on the mentality and psychology of students. Therefore, young parents should be good at grasping the methods of education and avoid going to extremes.
How should parents guide the innocence of kindergarten students? Parents should set an example by being a role model for students, and use their own practical actions to guide students on the right learning path, instead of blindly playing mobile phones and watching TV, resulting in poor imitation ability of students.
Parents should keep an open mind and not interfere too much in the student's social circle, especially when it comes to choosing friends, which should be decided by the student himself. Parents should not intervene in every time a student chooses a friend, as too much intervention will only make students sensitive and cowardly.
In addition, parents should also take the initiative to learn more advanced teaching methods, both to pursue"Happy growth", and also allow students to experience some setbacks in moderation. But this is not a deliberate attempt to create difficulties, and there is no point in doing so. At the same time, students should not be allowed to become in the greenhouse"Flowers", hindering their ability to cope with the storms of reality.
Parents should be clear"Boundaries"concept, give students enough personal space, respect their ideas and wishes. Parents should not be domineering or to show themselves"Authority"And forcing students to do what they want is the wrong way to educate.
In short, each child is an individual with their own thoughts and ideas. Parents should not be overly vigilant, but should be treated, carefully guided, and strive to cultivate their interest in learning. As students grow, their ideas will become more and more mature, and the burden on parents will naturally be reduced.