The school bans rankings, female parents check the information of the whole class, and the comment area is in chaos!
When we were students, when school test results came out, we were often faced with a terrible scenario. We'll see our scores or test scores on the big list, and then we'll have to go home and report it to our parents. At that time, we were always trembling and anxious because if the test results were not satisfactory, our parents might treat us badly or even take action.
This scene has left a deep imprint on many people's childhood memories. In the past two years, primary and secondary schools around the country have generally stipulated that students' grades will no longer be disclosed during the compulsory education stage, which is considered to be a positive change, which can reduce students' anxiety about teaching and ease students' comparison psychology.
Students no longer have to endure the huge psychological pressure of grading and do not have to worry about being reprimanded by their parents for unsatisfactory grades. However, this change has caused some parents to be uneasy. For parents who are accustomed to assessing their children's academic performance by grades, the lack of information** about grades can be unsettling.
That's because, for some parents, knowing the grade levels of the whole class, or knowing where their child is relative in the class, is fundamental to helping them better guide their child's learning.
Some schools solve this problem by employing a sliding grade or grading system, which divides students' grades into different grades, for example, all students in one stage receive a grade of A, and all students in another stage receive a grade of B. This system emerged on the one hand to adapt to the new policy, and on the other hand, to allow parents to continue to know the level of academic performance of their students according to certain standards.
However, this arrangement can be confusing for parents when analyzing student rankings, as it is difficult for them to know exactly how their child will really rank in the class as a whole without a specific numerical identification, and some anxious parents may even make some strange moves.
Since the school doesn't grade us, let me grade my child myself. However, the cost of manually grading children is too high, which not only causes anxiety and stress for children, but also violates other students' personal learning information.
Recently, a mother's fiery behavior has caused the comment section to be flooded with all kinds of ridicule or criticism. The mom first tweeted:"Is there anyone like me in the world? It seems to be self-reflection, but in fact it is more of a show.
Because next, in order to show off her results, she is still a little proud, that is, she spent a long time logging in to the school's grade inquiry system, for what? Not just to check my son's scores, but also to use the information of all the children in the class.
Parents enter the names of their classmates into the system one by one in order to see each student's grades, and then check the grades by high and low scores. Then, they enter their child's grades and look at their own"Dumb"In the end, how many places are ranked, whether they are good students in the class, and you can also analyze the child's weak subjects in order to arrange the next study plan.
The father's words reveal a sense of self-motivation and self-satisfaction, as he believes that he is doing it for the good of his children and is a very responsible act.
Why do we want everyone's grades just because of your doll's grades? There must be a reason why schools don't publish grades. And the results of all the final exams in the past two years have not been announced, so have they not been truthfully announced?
For parents, it's good to get used to this change slowly. There may be many parents who have adapted to this way of not announcing grades, they don't want to see their children's grades, and they also make their children anxious, but this mother is very good, she gives the information to the class.
As a result, some netizens became impatient, saying that this kind of parental control is too strong. Some parents like the psychology of classification too much, but some netizens don't understand. Some people say, in addition to classifying other people's information, why don't you classify your own unit as well?
What is the salary? What is the job category? What is the ranking in the entire neighborhood or the entire city? Why not make a table for yourself before judging your child's academic performance?
In fact, schools are slowly changing the atmosphere of anxiety and competition that used to be in the past, and now they don't publish rankings, but parents are looking for ways to help schools do the opposite. This situation can make people more uncomfortable. Perhaps all parents should reflect on this: is there no other way to discover students' strengths and weaknesses in subjects other than grades?
Perhaps, if you can sit down and talk to your students after work and care about their learning, all of these problems can be solved.
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