The following is a transcript of the conversation between the questioner and Coach Wen Bin:
Questioner:I suddenly felt like I had never been myselfI give a lot of love to others, but I am lacking in myself, I seem to be a key to open others, but a lock to lock myself. I can feel it myself, in fact, I don't want to cry, I've been sick for almost a month recently, and it's only been 5 days since I got up, and I haven't been able to get up, so I asked myself if there was a problem. It seems that I can't find my inner self, who I am, how should I live nextI seemed dizzy, I was afraid of my future, especially when there was no one, and I was very scared and wondered how I was going to live. So I just wanted to ask the coach, how do I get out of the state I am in now? Coach Wen Bin:What kind of state do you get out of? Questioner:It seems that there is no ego in that state. Coach Wen Bin:If you don't have an ego, then what are you going to do? Questioner:I don't seem to know where to go. Coach Wen Bin:So you stay where you are, isn't that what you want? Questioner:It doesn't seem like that's what I want either. Coach Wen Bin:You see, you don't know where you're going, and you don't want to stay where you are, so what do you want? Questioner:I sometimes ask myself, I can't seem to die, I'm in a very painful state. Coach Wen Bin:So because of what,Do you choose to stay here and suffer rather than take a step forward? Questioner:Yes, I also asked myself this question, why is it so painful, I can't move forward on my own, why can't I, I seem to be very confused, I will be very good when I tell others, yesterday I was healing others, but when it comes to myself, I am very confused. Coach Wen Bin:So you're not confused at all, you're just not moving forward, what are you confused? Questioner:I don't seem to have let myself go. Coach Wen Bin:Wow! How do you find out that it's because you haven't let yourself go, not because you can't take a step forward? Questioner:At that moment, it was as if I had taken a rope and tied myself hereIt was as if I had bound my legs and feet to move forward, my brain was unwilling to let go of myself, and my inner self had no courage. Coach Wen Bin:So here you are today, are you ready for you to untie yourself? Questioner:Today I just want to come, I just want to untie this rope. Coach Wen Bin:The bell must also be tied to the bellMay I start loosening from **? Questioner:From the heart of the brain.
Coach Wen Bin:Let's talk about it. Questioner:It's just to live in the moment from every moment of the presentTo face the present self sincerely, so that you can just accept it, accept the current stateStep by step. Coach Wen Bin:That's great! Because what, it's not that you have to find a direction to start, but to accept, it's wonderful! Questioner:Right,It was your firm eyes, as if there was a gentle heart, that made me feel a kind of strengthI should start from the moment little by little, don't seem to be far away in that direction, just because you see too far, so you will be scared and don't know how to goIt might be better if you go from the moment to the moment. Coach Wen Bin:When did you start and take that first step? Questioner:From now on. Coach Wen Bin:That's great! Come, come along, want to go**? I'll be with you. Questioner:Thank you coach, thank you coach! (Stands up and walks a few steps).Coach Wen Bin:Bless you! Every step of the wayStep by step. Become a Coach |Coaching |Potential breakthrough |Coach Zen Garden |Corporate Coaching |Organizational Change |Personal growth
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