1. In a relationship, we don't have to ask a man how much money he earns a month, but we can do it by observing the other person's spending habits.
Xiaowei and Xiaoluo met on a blind date, and the two of them had a good impression of each other's appearance, so they went on dates and ate together several times.
Once after a meal, Xiaowei said to Xiaoluo: "Come with me to the mall, I don't have any snacks at home." The two of them bought a bunch of snacks together, and there were about 500 yuan at the checkout. Xiao Luo thought to herself: "The boy who spends 500 yuan on snacks should not have a low income!" ”
Appointments are sometimes scheduled at a movie theater near the city center. Xiao Luo will ask Xiao Wei: "Are you setting off in **?" Pick me up? Xiaowei said: "This is very close to my house, I can walk to it in ten minutes, do you live far away?" Let's make a tick. ”
When Xiao Luo heard this, she knew which sections of the road where Xiao Wei lived. Through dating, although he has never talked much about money, where he lives and where he eats, all show Xiaowei's consumption level.
Through these details, as well as the reception of people during the relationship, Xiaoluo determined that Xiaowei was the person she was looking for, and later really went to his house, came into contact with his family, and entered the marriage, which also confirmed that her guesses were right.
2. Don't take too much care of men's money. My colleague Xiao Zhang pays his girlfriend Xiao Su every month to transfer rent, property fees, water and electricity bills, and food expenses, and keeps 500 yuan for pocket money.
Once, he was in charge of a project that required an advance of 3,000 yuan to buy equipment for the company. Xiao Zhang didn't have it, he told his girlfriend to let her turn around, but his girlfriend said that it was all used up. In fact, she has what she has, but she doesn't want Xiao Zhang to have money.
Xiao Zhang is so anxious! Later, I found other colleagues to turn around, and I successfully bought the equipment and completed the task. But his colleagues persuaded him that his girlfriend is so dead in charge of money, and our industry has to invest in the early stage, so that your room for improvement may be limited.
After this time, Xiao Zhang never handed over the money to his girlfriend anymore, and paid the bills by himself, and his girlfriend really lost a lot of money. Therefore, sometimes it is really unnecessary to manage men's money so hard, small money does not come out, big money does not come in!
3. A woman's financial independence and spending her boyfriend's money are two different things, and knowing how to spend a man's money makes him more motivated and motivated.
Zhang Ailing has a saying: "Spending his money, my heart is happy." "A woman, no matter how much she can make money and how independent she is, hopes that the man around her who loves her will pay for him.
When Xiao Chen and Xiao Wu were together, Xiao Chen's family was relatively wealthy, and her father was the factory director. Xiao Wu's father worked in the countryside.
The relationship between the two is relatively good, although Xiao Chen is relatively wealthy, but he does not attach much importance to money. Xiao Wu once bought her a platinum necklace of Lukfook, maybe more than 1,000 yuan, alas! It's amazing, Xiao Wu goes everywhere to show off, she really feels so happy.
Xiao Chen is like this, as long as Xiao Wu spends money to buy something for her, even if it is a 50 yuan flower or a 30 yuan chocolate, she will smile happily, and her face will show a smile like a sunflower.
Xiao Wu felt very motivated, and he felt very happy to pay for Xiao Chen. When he saw her smiling face, he felt that it was the best reward he had ever given. In order to see Xiao Chen's smiling face more, he was more motivated to make money.
Look! In the process of falling in love, we have not talked about money on the table, but through consumption habits, through a relaxed attitude towards money management, through gratitude, and willing to accept men's contributions, we can deal with the problem of not hurting feelings when talking about money.