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Teenage social master: Be a child who can speak, communicate, and have high emotional intelligence
33 social lessons, 120 social skills, let children say goodbye to social fear.
This book can help children solve the following five problems:
How to get along with mom and dad.
How to get along with classmates.
How to make new friends.
How to make yourself better.
How to become a more popular person.
Introduction
Dale Carnegie said, "15 percent of a person's success is based on expertise, and 85 percent is due to relationships and the ability to deal with the world." "Interpersonal relationships and the ability to deal with the world can only be gradually matured through interpersonal communication. Through the improvement of interpersonal skills, children will enter a real and vast world, learn to express, establish a correct self-image, and establish harmonious relationships with others.
As children grow older, they will slowly come into contact with society, contact with all kinds of people, and deal with all kinds of unexpected situations. Will your child be able to cope with the big and small things in society? This is something that parents are very concerned about. What should I do if my child is bullied? Can the child manage his relationship with the child? Will your child protect himself when he or she encounters violence? ......Parents worry about these problems almost every day.
Youth Social Master: Be a Child with High Emotional Intelligence Who Can Speak, Communicate, and Communicate" is committed to guiding children to learn the ability to interact with others, and improve children's social emotional intelligence, social ability, and social etiquette through 33 common social scenarios for children, so that children can truly learn to interact with others.
About the Author
Lanxin. Her real name is Liu Lanlan. Family Education Instructor, Psychological Counselor, College Lecturer, Parent-Child Relationship & Personal Growth Coach. A fun, material, loving, and energetic 13-year-old boy's mother. He has been engaged in the education industry for 14 years. He used to be the vice president of a listed educational institution.
Focusing on the field of family education for a long time, it has helped thousands of families improve and create a harmonious parent-child relationship, and accompanied countless children and parents to learn and grow. It has organized 1000+ children to study in more than 10 countries such as the United Kingdom, the United States, Germany, and France.
Table of Contents
Part 1 How to get along with mom and dad.
Lesson 1 My mother always nags me, what should I do?
First, find a time when your mother is not too busy to communicate with her.
Second, a brief foreshadowing before formal communication.
Third, be honest with your mom what you really think and feel.
Fourth, come up with action plans and programmes.
Lesson 2 Mom and Dad have a quarrel, what should I do?
First, you have to understand that many times mom and dad don't quarrel because it's not your fault.
Second, after they have argued, you can express your concern.
Third, wait for them to calm down and find an opportunity to tell them how you feel.
Lesson 3 Mom and Dad always interrupt me, what should I do?
First, admit what you did wrong.
Second, calmly and objectively describe what happened.
Third, thank Mom and Dad for their companionship and cooperation.
Fourth, put forward your own ideas and win the approval of your parents.
Lesson 4 Mom and Dad are always criticizing me, what should I do?
First, tell Mom and Dad how you feel.
Second, tell Mom and Dad what you think.
Third, tell Mom and Dad the support you want.
Lesson 5 Dad always doesn't have time to spend with me, doesn't he love me?
First, change from passive to proactive.
Second, express your inner feelings in a timely manner.
Third, write down the content of the company you want.
Lesson 6 What should I do when my mother throws a tantrum at me?
Part 2 How to make friends.
Part 3 How to get along with classmates.
Part 4 How to make yourself better.
Part 5 How to be a popular person.
Wonderful book excerpts
Mom always nagged me what should I do.
The holiday is the happiest thing for many children, but every time the holiday is over, 9-year-old Xiaoli can't be happy. She always thought, "If only my mom didn't take a holiday when I'm on vacation, then I can be quieter .......""Why is that? It turned out that her mother was always nagging her. Mom's nagging rings in her ears every day, let alone the time for the holidays. For example: "Why are you always procrastinating, hurry up and start doing your homework!" "You see Aunt Zhang's Xuanxuan is the first in this exam again, you have to work harder!" "Why is your room always messy, can't you clean it up?" "Can you be obedient? Can you save me a little heart? Mom is also very tired after a long day of work! "Can you hurry up, we won't go out any later!" "How many times have I told you, why can't you remember? ”…Her mother's daily nagging made Xiaoli very annoying and unhappy, and she did even worse things. Sometimes Xiaoli even deliberately goes against her mother, and if her mother wants her to do something well, she deliberately procrastinates, or deliberately does not do well. As a result, mom is angrier and there will be more nagging. In this way, a vicious circle is formed between them. So what should Xiaoli do? Child, do you have similar troubles? What should we do in this situation? In fact, at this time, the best solution is to communicate with your mother, you might as well try the following methods.
First, find a time when your mother is not too busy to communicate with her, you can tell your mother that you have something to say, you want to sit down with her and have a good talk, and ask her if she has time to listen. If mom has time at the moment, take the next step, and if mom doesn't have time at the moment, make an appointment with her for another time. In general, your mother will accept your suggestions and will be willing to communicate with you. Even if she doesn't have time, she'll schedule it as soon as possible, so don't rush!