List of high-quality authors My mother wants to have a second child at the age of 50, and I don't agree. Two years later, my dad kicked me out of the house
Xu Yaoyao, 23 years old, just graduated from university, and was successfully admitted to the civil service of the Municipal Civil Affairs Bureau, with a monthly salary of 3,500 yuan. Her parents had only one daughter, her, and since her mother had been diagnosed with polycystic ovaries at a young age, it was very difficult for her to get pregnant. Despite a variety of **, the wish for a second child has not been realized. Therefore, the couple decided to accept the facts and enjoy their little family life.
Xu Yaoyao grew up in such a warm environment, she knew that she was the heart of her parents, so she studied hard and wanted to repay her parents for their nurturing kindness through her own efforts.
However, this peaceful life was shattered on the 50th birthday of her mother Wu Mei.
Xu Yaoyao deliberately took half a day off to go home to celebrate her mother's birthday. She left the flat in a hurry, pre-ordered her birthday cake, and went to the vegetable market to buy a variety of ingredients, including her mother's favorite pig's trotters, her father's favorite squid, and a host of other delicious ingredients.
When they got home, before their father Xu Hailin got off work, the mother and daughter began to get busy preparing dinner. Together, they cooked a sumptuous meal with a mouth-watering aroma. At dinner, the family sat together in a happy and happy atmosphere.
After Wu Mei made a wish and blew out the candles, Xu Hailin said, "Yaoyao, while your mother's birthday is happy and everyone is happy, we have good news to tell you." ”
Xu Yaoyao looked at her parents curiously, waiting for the good news.
While cutting the cake, she asked expectantly, "Dad, don't be in suspense, tell me quickly!" ”
Your mother is pregnant, the child is three months old, and I don't know if it's a younger brother or a younger sister. ”
Wu Mei smiled so that the corners of her eyes were full of wrinkles, and she said softly: "Yes, it's better to be a younger brother, so that you can have both children and daughters." ”
This news shook Xu Yaoyao like spring thunder, and she was stunned for a while, standing in place in disbelief.
Yaoyao, Yaoyao, why is it silent? "Xu Hailin patted Xu Yaoyao, who was stunned.
Xu Yaoyao said in disbelief"I don't approve of moms having another child. "
Wu Mei frowned and asked"Now that you're grown up and have a job, we don't have to worry about you anymore. Your dad and I want a baby, why don't you agree? "
Xu Yaoyao sighed:"Mom, you're in your fifties, your body is no longer suitable for childbearing, and you're not in great health. It's too risky for you. "
Dad chimed in"Now that the medical conditions are so good, any problem can be solved. Your mom is pregnant, we're all very happy, and if we had known you'd object, we wouldn't have discussed it with you. "
Hearing her father's irresponsible words, Xu Yaoyao was a little angry:"Dad, did you completely ignore Mom's physical condition? She already had high blood pressure, and getting pregnant again was a torture for her. "
The father and daughter seemed to be about to quarrel, and Wu Mei hurriedly grabbed Xu Yaoyao:"Yaoyao, having a second child is your father's wish and me. Even if your dad doesn't agree, I want it. We have consulted the doctor, although there are risks, but we will take care of them. "
Xu Hailin crossed his waist and said"It's me and your mother, we're just telling you that you don't have the right to decide. "
Xu Yaoyao listened to her parents' words, and didn't want to say anything more, just silently eating the cake, feeling a little uncomfortable.
After learning the news, Xu Yaoyao thought a lot, but was still confused:
First of all, she didn't understand why her parents had to have another child at such an old age. She is worried about her mother's health, after all, her mother is in her fifties, and the risk of having another child is very high, and it is also a test for her mother's body.
On the one hand, she blames her mother for not paying attention to her health, and on the other hand, she complains that her father does not take into account her mother's physical condition.
Secondly, she is also somewhat selfish in her own situation. She has just graduated now, her salary is not high, and her life has just begun. And parents have another child at such an old age, even if they are born successfully, the energy and physical strength of the parents and husband will be challenged. She may have to take care of the child in the future, which weighs heavily on her. She hasn't started to fall in love yet, let alone get married, but her parents are already thinking about having a second child. Although her parents said that she didn't need to worry about it, as the eldest daughter in the family, the responsibility may still fall on her in the end.
She was frustrated to think that she would have to take care of two elderly people in the future and take on the responsibility of taking care of her parents' second child, but what could she do? I could only silently wipe away my tears.
Although Xu Yaoyao was sad, she understood that her father sometimes needed to work overtime, and she was also worried about her mother's physical condition. In order to take better care of her mother, she decided to move home from the unit dormitory.
It is not easy to get pregnant, especially if the mother is already old and belongs to high-risk mothers. Medical examinations are more frequent and require more attention and care. So, Xu Yaoyao put down social activities, hurried home after work every day, and carefully prepared dinner.
However, the most worrying thing happened to her. Wu Mei gave birth to the baby early, and there were some problems when the baby was not yet due to be delivered.
Faced with Wu Mei's urgent need, the father and daughter hurriedly sent her to the hospital. Premature birth is inherently risky, and combined with the advanced age of the mother, the situation becomes even more urgent. Xu Yaoyao and Xu Hailin anxiously waited for the doctor's news, pacing back and forth outside the hospital.
After a long wait, the good news finally came. The baby was born by caesarean section, and although it was born prematurely, it was well cared for in the incubator. Wu Mei also passed the life and death pass, but she was still in a coma.
Xu Yaoyao went to visit Wu Mei with tears in her eyes, and she and her father were even more worried about Wu Mei's health.
During the long wait in the hospital, it took three full months until the day of discharge. After Wu Mei was discharged from the hospital, Xu Yaoyao decided to ask her sister-in-law to take care of her mother. She couldn't bear to watch her mother suffer any more.
A few months have passed, and although my younger brother has grown up a lot, he is frail and sickly due to premature birth, and often needs hospital support. Wu Mei also fell ill because of this production, and she had to drink Chinese medicine every week.
Fortunately, my father's annual salary is good, and he has enough money for his younger brother and mother to see a doctor, otherwise it may be difficult for the average family to afford it.
Xu Yaoyao looked at her mother uncomfortable, but she couldn't do anything but try her best to take care of the mother and son.
Two years later, her younger brother has grown up healthy, but Wu Mei's health is getting worse day by day, her hair is getting grayer and grayer, her high blood pressure is more serious, and she even often faints with dizziness.
Xu Yaoyao didn't dare to leave the house, preferring to go back and forth every day, so she even installed a camera at home to better pay attention to the situation of her mother and younger brother.
Although the life of a family of four is not easy, it can be regarded as happy. Xu Yaoyao saw that her parents were happy, and she felt relieved in her heart, thinking that the old couple could accompany the child to grow up, she was also relieved, as for the pressure in the future, let's talk about it later.
Things seem to be moving in a good direction. Xu Yaoyao got the opportunity to be promoted and raised because of her excellent work, but she needed to be transferred to another unit to work, which was farther away from home, and it was very inconvenient to take the subway home every day.
So she started thinking about buying a car, but as a newcomer who had just worked for two years, her savings were limited.
She decided to pay part of it herself, and then borrow some from her family to buy a scooter to make it easier to commute every day.
In the evening, Xu Yaoyao and Wu Mei were watching TV on the sofa, while Xu Hailin was teasing his younger brother. She felt it was time to speak.
Dad, I'm going to transfer to another place to work, and I want to buy a car to commute and make it easy to go back and forth. ”
Xu Hailin hugged his younger brother and said, "Your mother is not in good health and needs it often."
Money to see a doctor, and your brother will need to go to school in the future. There isn't that much money to buy you a car for the time being. ”
Xu Yaoyao frowned, "The unit over there is far away from home, and it is very inconvenient for me to squeeze the subway every day without a car, and my mother is not in good health, I don't worry about her, otherwise I will move to the unit." I saved some money myself, the car I fancy is about 120,000, I can pay 60,000 by myself, you can help me with 60,000. ”
Xu Hailin refused without hesitation: "Your mother doesn't need you to worry so much at all, I will hire a nanny to take care of her." You only need to concentrate on your work, and it is more convenient to go back to work. ”
Wu Mei echoed and said: "Let's buy a car for the child, so that it will be more convenient to go back and forth, and it will not be a problem to go to the unit." ”
Xu Hailin frowned: "Buy a car now, you have to buy a house next time." Now that all the money is spent on your mother, what will you do with your children in the future? ”
Wu Mei was speechless, so she had to silently take the child back to the room. As a housewife, she doesn't have much say in household expenses and is dependent on her husband for all her finances.
Xu Yaoyao looked at Xu Hailin aggrievedly: "Why do you have money if you can hire a nanny, but you don't have money to buy me a car?" I didn't ask to buy a house, the nanny costs four or five thousand a month, and forty or fifty thousand a year. When I used to take care of my mother at home, why didn't you say hire a babysitter? Now when it comes to buying a car, you want to hire a babysitter, and I think you are biased. ”
Xu Hailin has always had a strong patriarchal mind, and when he heard his daughter questioning herself, her emotions suddenly got out of control, and she couldn't help but give Xu Yaoyao a slap: "What are you talking about?" Now get the hell out of here. ”
Xu Yaoyao was caught off guard and looked at her angry father with a shocked face. She covered her hot face, grabbed her phone, and hurriedly ran out the door.
Wu Mei heard the movement and rushed to the living room, but it was too late to stop Xu Hailin, and her daughter had already left.
Wu Mei burst into tears and accused Xu Hailin: "How can you beat her? She's always been very filial. It's just a car, why are you reluctant to buy it for her? ”
Xu Hailin remained silent, distraughtly walked to the balcony, and lit a cigarette.
Later, Wu Mei called Xu Yaoyao a few times, begging her to go home, and went to the unit to find her. But she was still angry, her father's attitude made her feel cold, and she also blamed her mother for not persuading her at that time, she felt that she was not wrong, and she didn't want to go back for the time being.
Xu Yaoyao lowered her eyes and said softly: "It's not that I don't want to forgive my father, it's just that he speaks too harshly." ”
Xu Hailin had to explain the situation at that time.
It turned out that Dad's company was in trouble and needed to pay a large amount of compensation, but instead of telling his family, he silently endured the pressure.
The family relied on him alone, his younger brother was still young, and Wu Mei's health was not good, which made him feel very irritable, so he threw his anger on Xu Yaoyao for a while.
After hearing this, Xu Yaoyao finally understood the truth of the matter. Thinking that her father had always loved her, the misunderstanding was resolved, and the estrangement in her heart dissipated, and finally she forgave her father. The father and daughter reconciled as before, and Xu Yaoyao also decided to move back home.
After this, the author would like to say:
Parents who want to have a second child may not have to ask for the consent of their first-born child, but if they are older and have a high-risk pregnancy, they should still consider the actual situation.
Although old age is precious, do you have enough energy to take care of a child and raise him to grow up? If not, the firstborn child will inevitably have to take on more responsibilities, which will put more pressure on him, will his life be bound by this child?
Also, the most important thing in the family is to understand each other. No matter what happens, we should consult with each other, support each other, and face the problem together to solve it more easily. Home is always a safe haven, and family is always dependent. No matter how difficult the road ahead, always remember that you have your family behind you.