Most people end up going downhill and towards desolation.
I didn't understand it when I was in my twenties, but it wasn't until I was in my 30s now, when I witnessed the departure of my loved ones and the aging of my loved ones, that I gradually realized that no matter how beautiful you were when you were young, how high your income was, and how successful your career was, you can't resist the erosion of the years, and basically most people's careers, income, and social status will go downhill when you are about 40-50 years old. Some people have a career collapse, a failed startup, and fall from the top. Some people have lost their high-paying and decent jobs and started a labor force with a monthly salary of several thousand yuan. Some people have health problems and have to stop working and start to rethink the meaning of life. Others are reduced to prisoners ...... the lower ranksIn short, most people, in their forties and fifties, will gradually retire from the stage because of energy, energy and competition, as well as health problems. This is inevitable, and everyone may start at this age and gradually go into decline. When your parents pass away, you will also watch your actions gradually remain the same, and you will be about to half-cut yourself into the ground, with fewer and fewer friends around you and fewer and fewer people to talk to. It's a sad process that everyone goes through.
The period between 20 and 30 years old is golden, and you can become the person you want to be. True growth must be to break through one's own limitations, inner self-change and active improvement.
We have to learn to be our own parents, and the family of origin is by no means a reason why we cannot make changes, for the sake of our own next 30 years, and for our children not to repeat our childhood.
Low self-esteem and anxiety will only kill your happiness, lose your confidence, and make you live a depressed life every day.
So you don't want to live like this anymore, okay? You have to understand that you only live once, so you don't have to care about what others think of you, and you don't have to belittle and find fault with yourself everywhere.
Just be happy and live as much as you want. Besides, you're not ugly at all, and you're not that bad. The suffering of young people is not bitter, but the suffering of old age is the real suffering! When you are young, it is okay to be poor and poor, because there are infinite possibilities in being young.
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