"Someone can push you to the ground unless you fall, but they can't stop you from getting up with dust and scars. ”
In this life, people sometimes fall. 。Even when walking on level ground, your feet may slip and fall to the ground.
It's okay if you fall, you get up as soon as you hit the ground. The most terrible thing is heartbreak.
No matter how many times I get knocked down, I can get back on my feet.
I remember Helen Keller once saying this in "Give Me Three Days of Light". "Dark clouds can't hide the sun. ”
I've been watching lately. "Dream Sea" again, I know the ending, but every time I see Ye Guohua and Chen Hongjun stabbing Xiao Chunsheng in the back, I can't help but curse.
Ye Guohua and Chen Hongjun, Xiao Chunsheng has always regarded them as brothers.
The woman he liked liked Xiao Chunsheng, and although she smiled in front of him, she was indifferent to him behind his back, and finally broke up with her.
Needless to say, the other party thought that he had promoted Xiao Chunsheng, but he was jealous of his ability and popularity, and wanted to trip him many times.
In the end, Xiao Chunsheng achieved a double harvest of career and family through his own efforts.
I really like the lines in the play. "There is nothing wrong with the moon, but those who can't stand its light are. ”
If someone is trying to destroy you, it means that there is a bright spot within you. Others are out of reach, or unwilling to make an effort to catch up with you.
In other words, it's not your fault that you're being pushed to the ground. You don't have to stop moving forward to make others proud.
The best way to get revenge is to get back on your feet and move forward more steadily than before.
Is it that scary to fall? Who says you can't get up?
In the 80s of the 20th century, there was a woman named Wu Shengming, who was the richest woman in Zhejiang Province.
At that time, she took a risk to buy and sell, broke the law, and went to prison.
Soon after she was imprisoned, her husband divorced her and married the family's nanny. After that, her only emotional support, her only daughter, Yan, committed suicide.
After her release from prison, she worked as a cleaner. Now in her 70s, she refuses to be manipulated by fate and chooses to continue her career.
She said. "It's not terrible to fail, it's terrible that we lose our fighting spirit. Success is just one more chance to fall down and get back up again than failure! ”
There are countless bumps in the road. If you fall to the ground, you can't fight in life, so there's no point in getting bogged down.
As long as you stand up and keep going your way, no one can stop you. Moreover, there is no rule that says that a person who falls cannot run back to the top of the mountain.
As long as you make up your mind to keep going, a fall is just a minor accident on the road.
I read the following paragraph:
A few years ago, I knew a girl who was very good in business. Once, when she was fighting for a promotion, she was deceived by her opponent.
Subsequently, her partner gradually rose through the ranks to become her direct supervisor, deliberately making her job difficult.
Since then, she has become less active and lies down after work, thinking that everything she does will make it difficult for her.
A few years later, employees younger than her in the company were promoted or raised. However, not only did she not improve, but she was often deducted points for her mistakes.
The stupidest thing in the world is to be like this girl who was pushed to the ground.
This kind of self-destruction is simply the other party's **. It's not enough for others to step on you, you also help the people who step on you and continue to bully you. How stupid!
You need to know that your future is yours. The more others try to stop you from moving forward, the less you can force them to do so.
You have to support yourself as always and be your strongest supporter.
There is a memorable passage in an article published by the people**:
If you fall or are pushed by someone else, don't be disappointed, let alone embarrassed. Keep your head held high and your chest forward.
Those who are strong at heart and can get back gracefully no matter how many times they fall, are more valuable than their abilities.
I hope that in the future, you can train yourself to accept obstacles and blows like a mini-game, keep upgrading and fighting monsters, and always move forward wholeheartedly.