Mencius once said: "The most important thing in understanding between people is mutual understanding, and the most important thing in understanding between people is mutual understanding." ”
Sexuality, mutual understanding and understanding in the process of getting along with the opposite sex, is the basis for building a stable relationship.
But without both, it will be difficult to maintain a long-term relationship even if you know each other.
01 Respect.
Love begins with falling in love, then quarrels, cold wars, and finally breakups.
In fact, the most important thing is the lack of respect.
Someone on the Internet said: "I don't envy couples in their prime, I just envy those old people who support each other, because they have walked through life hand in hand." ”
We all want that. Our relationship lasted from love to eternity.
Respect is very important when dealing with the opposite sex.
The lack of respect makes it difficult to maintain a long-term relationship.
Respect is the foundation of relationships.
Respecting each other's thoughts, feelings, and decisions builds trust and understanding.
Only such a relationship can stand the test of time and be long-lasting.
As Eileen Chang said, "We are compassionate because of love and tolerant because of understanding."
When we truly love someone, we feel compassion for everything about them, including their shortcomings and mistakes. 。
If you understand each other, you will be able to tolerate his flaws, because you know that everyone has room to grow.
Therefore, when getting along with the opposite sex, you need to learn to respect, understand, and tolerate each other.
Only in this way can a stable, healthy, and lasting relationship be established.
02 Partner.
*Yong once said: "Life is like a dance, and the person who teaches you the dance steps may not be able to accompany you to the end." ”
But the person who really taught you to dance, I love you, and I will always be by your side and go through the ups and downs of life with you.
I know couples who spend less time together because of work or dreams.
But that didn't diminish the love between them.
Even when you are not around each other, you can feel each other's warmth and support.
They keep in touch through **, text messages, and letters, sharing every detail of their lives.
When you have free time after a hard day at work, the first thing that comes to your mind is another person.
In difficult moments, we discuss solutions together and face challenges together.
When something happy happens, we immediately share the joy with each other.
A friend told me that true love is always about sharing what you see and hear.
Their love has withstood the test of time and distance and has become stronger.
Therefore, when we meet someone who truly loves us, we must cherish the relationship with that person.
Whether it's close at hand or far away, true love is an invisible friendship and a mutual support deep in the heart.
Getting along with the opposite sex is a complex and beautiful discipline that must be carefully understood and mastered.
Only in this way can we go further on the road of love and reap our own happiness.
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