As the saying goes, "Warm words are like the sunshine of spring, and evil words are like the frost of winter." That's a really good saying, a good word can enhance the relationship between each other, and a bad word can destroy the relationship between two people. We need to always remember that words from the heart can create a good life. In life, it will take us three years to learn to speak, but we will have to learn to be silent for the rest of our lives. This shows that being good at speaking does not mean being smart, and learning to be silent is the real wisdom. The mouth can say a beautiful rose, or it can say a stinging thistle. A wise person would not say the following ten things! 
1. Quit talking too much and doing it harmlessly, talking and hurting people a lot, and saying too much wrong! Be a person and do things, don't exaggerate, beware of saying too much and losing it. Speaking is a skill and an art, words and deeds, dealing with the world, should be cautious in words and deeds, words are like arrows, irreversible. Only when it is properly expressed is the wisest choice. 2. Quit talking lightly and being a man should have credibility, be true to your word, and do what you say. Don't promise things that can't be guaranteed, because credibility is the foundation of the foundation. Swearing easily will only lead to trouble and a loss of trust in you. Don't lose your life for the sake of a momentary pleasure, cherish your credit, in order to gain the trust of others and lay a good foundation for personal development. 
3. Quit madness and say that there will be rain when the sky is mad, and woe to people who are crazy. To be a man, we must distinguish between right and wrong, know the severity, and stay away from wild words. Wild words can cause anger and hatred, but they will only seek their own enemies and cause trouble, and the consequences will be unimaginable. We should remain calm, rational, and choose our words wisely to avoid the mistake of saying too much and losing too much. Only in this way can we get along better with others and create a better future. 4. Don't be outspoken, and carefully consider your own language. Speaking out, you may offend others and cause unnecessary harm. If you have something to say, you might as well change it to a tactful way to make it easier for others to accept your opinion while maintaining a good relationship. In this way, you not only get the desired results, but also gain the favor of others. Let's express ourselves with our hearts and pay attention to the clever use of language to make our relationship better. 
5. Quit evil words and words like a cold winter, which hurts people a lot. Malicious words often cause greater psychological harm to people. In the world, you need to be cautious in your words and deeds, do not slander others, restrain yourself in your tongue, and do not say anything wrong, after all, bad words are difficult to eliminate. In order to create a good relationship, we need to know how to respect, understand and treat others with kindness. 6. Quit all your words and know that you don't need to be exhausted, and you don't need to be demanding, and leaving blank space is to create a way out for others and yourself. Be flexible and don't be too firm in your speech, otherwise you will inevitably embarrass each other and may eventually ruin the original relationship. Therefore, it is important to know how to take a step back and be considerate of others and leave room for yourself, so as to create a comfortable and harmonious friendship. 
7. Quit angry wordsWhen we feel angry, it's best to calm down first, keep silent, and don't speak rashly. Because when anger takes over our hearts, the words we say can be emotional, unable to think calmly, and hurtful to ourselves and others. As the saying goes, "Words spoken are like water spilled." "While we may have a vent for a while, it may leave us to regret it for the rest of our lives. Therefore, when we are faced with angry emotions, we can choose to think calmly and reflect first, so that we may better deal with our emotions and avoid making bad decisions. 8. The most important thing to be a man is to be self-aware, not to be conceited and arrogant, to think that he is omnipotent, and to be wary of boasting. If a person is always too narcissistic and self-righteous, then he will suffer a serious blow. As the saying goes, "When the water is full, it overflows, and when the moon is full, it loses." "If a person is too proud, he will not be able to bear it in the event of a disaster. Therefore, humility is the highest wisdom that can make you a better person and have a better life. 
9. Don't say that a person must know how to abide by his own principles and ethics. You should also be cautious with your words, and don't say things that may cause you trouble, as this may cause you some trouble. At the same time, we must also be cautious about things that do not know the truth, because some secrets may be related to specific people or organizations and should not be divulged. Only by being a principled person can we walk more steadily on the road of life. 10. To refrain from slander, you should be frank and upright, do not hide it, and do not maliciously slander or tell right and wrong. Such behavior not only corrupts morality, but also violates the basic norms of life. The reason why the rights and wrongs in the world are so terrible is often caused by rumors. Therefore, we need to be careful in what we say in order to bring true beauty, tranquility and harmony to each other. 
A wise person never speaks: his words are easy to be forgotten, his words hurt people's hearts, his wild words become a laughing stock, his outspoken words offend people, his bad words invite trouble, his words lose face, his angry words cause disputes, his words appear shallow, his words lose trust, and his slanderous words ruin people's names. Strive to communicate in positive language! The difficulty of cultivating in life is not in having less desires and no desires, but in keeping one's own language. If there is no restraint, it will cause evil consequences, ranging from disputes to disasters. It is so difficult to keep your mouth shut, once you abide by it, your heart will be warm, and your destiny will be good, may we all be able to practice successfully, keep your mouth shut, and stay away from disasters. May you be positive and optimistic, happy and happy, every day!