What do you see through the fact that most people are stressed out and in debt

Mondo Social Updated on 2024-02-09

Do you believe it? Now I am in debt, I have eaten the last meal without the next meal, and there are many people who have no money to go home for the New Year. I can tell you with certainty that most people are stressed out these days, especially middle-aged people. Just yesterday, my wife's cousin called him ** and asked if he could lend him 5,000 yuan first, but he really didn't have money for the New Year. My cousin said that he was unemployed in the second half of this year, and he still had a high school child to support, as well as foreign debts, mortgages, and children's tuition fees. Seeing that the Chinese New Year is coming, the family has no money to buy New Year's goods. My wife asked my opinion, should I borrow this money or not? I said that the emergency is not to help the poor, not to mention that he borrowed money for the New Year, of course he had to borrow. So my wife transferred 5,000 yuan to him. What do you see from this?

Here are the 3 points I can think of after careful consideration, if you have different opinions or better suggestions, please leave a message in the comment area to discuss. First, the surface is glamorous, but in fact, *** said bluntly to this session of netizens that many people seem to be living a good life now, but in fact, too many people face all kinds of loan repayments every day, especially housing loans, car loans, as well as various credit cards and consumer loans, and they are just barely alive every day, especially those who work in big cities, their pressure can be imagined. And what I want to say is that most of them are caused by face, and those who can prevent it will definitely not be able to figure out the thoughts of people who do not have a house to live in, and some people will even say, you can go back to the countryside, at least there is no problem with housing.

But who doesn't want to go to a city with good conditions? Who wouldn't want to improve their family's life? Who can guarantee that there will not be difficulties? Especially in the past 3 years of the epidemic, I don't know how many people's jobs and dreams of entrepreneurship have been broken, I don't know how many people have been laid off, lost their jobs, lost their jobs, lost their jobs, and how many entrepreneurs have closed down or even gone bankrupt because of this, who can these libraries tell to? So don't look at its glamorous surface, in fact, no one has a good time, how much suffering, how much difficulty, are clear in their hearts. 2. On the surface, there are all RVs, but in fact, the main reason for the current situation is that many young people in today's society have no sense of distress and no sense of crisis.

I always feel that the social development will get better and better, and I will not be unemployed, let alone sick, even if there is no loss in my hand, they dare to take out a loan to buy a house, a loan to buy a car, and to have a second child. But the three-year epidemic has made too many people see that the reality is so cruel, coupled with the problems in real estate in recent years, as well as the explosion of investment institutions, not to mention that the people at the bottom have been harvested, and even the middle class has not been destroyed. Therefore, no matter when and where, no matter how mixed you are, you must have a sense of crisis and smooth sailing, which is just an expectation and a hope. Life in the world, it is impossible to be without setbacks, a family always has to face the children to go to school, the elderly will inevitably get sick, once the top pillar loses his job or loses his job, he will face a night back to the pre-liberation period. So, at the moment, it is necessary to hold on to the few cash in hand no matter what, and if there is still a certain amount of depository, it is even better.

Only in this way can we resist unknown risks, provide more adequate protection for our families, and be more confident. 3. The surface is ugly and ugly, but you actually know it! In fact, like my wife and cousin, I also encountered this situation in the early days of my business, when in order to complete the second round of financing as soon as possible and keep the company running, I had to stop the company of several of our founders, and then take out all the few savings I had accumulated over the years to pay the employees. After all, they are not founders, they are just here to work, and they come out to work just to support their families.

I also persisted in such days for more than half a year, and I barely carried it until the second round of financing was in place, so I couldn't use difficulties to shape it during that time. I believe that anyone who has ever started a business can relate to it and know what I am talking about. Therefore, here, I would like to give a word of advice to those who are forging ahead in order to realize their dreams, and not to travel without pressure, and to grit your teeth and persevere no matter when. The reason why you can succeed is that you breathe more than others and allow yourself to stand up again. Are you right?

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