In life, we often see such a phenomenon: if a person succeeds, his honor will come to his face one after another, and reporters will flock to report, report, report, interview and interview, and the halo on his head will become more and more. Sometimes it overwhelms the successful person, and finally has to "shut down" to escape. Why is it so difficult to do something when you are not famous, ask reporters to look up to people, and when they need support from all sides, they are indifferent, even as cold as ice, and after success, they all come to a 180-degree turn overnight, what is the reason?
Jesus said, "Those who have will be given more, and those who do not will be deprived of even what they have." This is the "Matthew effect."
When a person digs out the "first pot of gold", he does not need to make money by himself, he will use others to make money for him, such as the enterprise of Taiwan's businessman Wang Yongqing has 40,000 employees, which is equivalent to 40,000 people making money for him. His income in one day is equal to how many lifetimes an ordinary worker can work! This is only one aspect of his money, on the other hand, he has tens of billions of assets, and he can also invest in **, real estate and other businesses, and "make money with money", etc., at the same time, all kinds of ** will promote him for free, the greater his fame, the faster he will make money, ......, thus forming a "virtuous circle". The better the reputation, the more opportunities, especially for the super-rich such as Li Ka-shing and Bill Gates.
As long as we understand the above principles, there is no need to be jealous of others and cause ourselves to fall into depression, insomnia, or even despair. We should immediately pick ourselves up and find a breakthrough point in our lives.
The specific method is the accumulation of advantages. Now please sit down calmly, think about what your own strengths, what resources can be developed and utilized, anyone has a certain potential, you are a great miracle in the world, if you have not succeeded now, it is not that you have no expertise and no ability, maybe you have not really known yourself, maybe you lack confidence. Maybe what you're missing is patience ....... You can often look at those successful and inspirational books, magazines, and every day you can see the successful examples of laid-off workers, self-made people who become millionaires and multi-millionaires by picking up waste; People who started a shoe-shine shop and later became a multi-millionaire ...... chain business.
The accumulation of advantages is not to despise small things, there is no humble career, only a humble heart! From now on, you can start, even if it's shoe repair or open a grocery store.
What Jesus said was, "Do not waste a drop of energy for anything, but save all your energy." When the energy reaches a certain level, the qualitative change occurs automatically, which is alchemy.
Osho said: You boil water, you keep adding heat to it, and then the heat reaches 100, and the water evaporates. 99, it's very, very hot, but it's still water. 100 — Leaped over.
This also happens in the inner world.
We always envy the success of others, and underestimate our own energy, we often worship the achievements of others, and sigh their own humility, if people always fall into this "strange circle" in their lives, probably really humble, or even never come out. Therefore, the ancients said: "It is better to retreat and build a net than to envy the fish in the abyss." Patience is a tempering of will, like a seed deeply implanted in the soil, suppressed, suffocated, longing, but as long as you persevere, there will always be a day when the soil will sprout and grow and bear fruit!
We have a lot of resources and skills, but sometimes we turn a blind eye or turn a blind eye, from another point of view, there are 80 million disabled people in our country, and many of them have shined through hard work, are we not as good as their conditions?
Blind Shuangkuoting, since elementary school play, and later lost his sight due to illness, he not only did not lose heart, but more diligent, hard practice, he needed someone to help him when he walked offstage, but when he performed on stage, he was not chaotic, and his skills were outstanding, and he finally became a generation of talented and exquisite art celebrities.
Liu Jingsheng, a shirtless calligrapher, did not lose his love and dedication to calligraphy after losing his arms in an accident more than 20 years agoAuthorIt was encouraged by his spirit to insist on practicing calligraphy after seeing him write "Don't let the years pay for the water".
The cripple Meng Hongshou, who suffered from hypochondria when he was a child, had long legs and short legs, a big head and small feet, and walked unsteadily, but he was not inferior, and he sweated more than others, and later became a harlequin master.
There are also Zhang Haidi, Huang Shan, Beethoven, Milton, Helen, Keller and other Chinese and foreign powerhouses, all of which are enough to prove that what affects people's success is not what happened to him, but his attitude towards life!
The accumulation of advantages is "a little bit of progress every day". As long as the goal is consistent, one day cool and dry spring water will gush out, which is the philosophy of "digging wells and drawing springs".
The accumulation of advantages is also a kind of "accumulation and accumulation".
Contemporary economic theories believe that "McDonald's", "KFC", "Oriental Dumpling King", "First-hand Shop", etc., are all the results of "accumulation of advantages".
At this moment, your mood is calm, right? Then start boiling your pot of water. Don't care about the quality of the pot, don't care about what fuel you use, because as long as you have the determination and stamina, even if you use leaves, grass roots, and bird droppings, as long as you keep burning, you will boil the water to 100, and then you will rise, change, and become the colorful sunshine, flowers and applause that you longed for, and the magnesium lights will fill your ...... around you.
Sleep well tonight, this is a better "accumulation of advantages" for tomorrowUgh