The ancients used to say:"If a person is observant, there will be no fugitive, and when the water is clear, there will be no fishVisibleDon't go to extremes, if you are too harsh, you will become a loner, and you will lose the opportunities and opportunities in life.
Hong Yingming said: "Don't be too clean and pure, and all insults and filths must be unclean; Don't be too clear with others, and all good and evil, good and foolish must be tolerated. It means that one should not be too upright in the world, and that all humiliation, grievances, slander, and filth must be tolerated; When getting along with others, you can't distinguish between good and evil too clearly, and you must tolerate both good people, bad people, wise people, and fools.
Such as:AuthorI heard from a friend that after a certain director took office, he did not accept gifts, second, did not accept money, and third, did not eat invitations. And there are no workarounds. Over time, those deputy directors and directors felt that he was too impersonal, so clear that he was indifferent and respectful, and the result was that no one dared to approach him. He was unable to obtain timely and accurate information and intelligence from all quarters, making it difficult for him to strategize and encounter many obstacles in his work. Not only that, but some individual leaders have been repeatedly "closed" because they invited him to dinner, so they are angry and angry, and they spread rumors behind their backs to slander that there is a problem with their life style, and they are unwilling to contact everyone because they are afraid of "privacy" and so on. Due to the unfavorable work carried out and the fact that everyone was in charge, it was difficult to distinguish between the true and the false, but he was forced to transfer away after only working for less than half a year.
Li Si once said: "Mount Tai does not let the soil, so it can become its big, and the river and sea do not choose a trickle, so it can be deep; The king is not only the people, so he can understand his virtue. This fully shows that in order for a person to make a difference, he must have the strength of "pure and inclusive, compatible with good and evil", not to mention that everyone has shortcomings, why ask for perfection? Confucius once said: "Threesomes must have my teacher, choose those who are good and follow them, and change those who are not good." ”
Turbidity and wrapping,First of all, we must expand the capacity of the "heart", as the so-called "big heart, to accommodate the things of the world", "big belly can tolerate, tolerate the things that the world cannot tolerate". There are also philosophers who say that the largest ocean in the world, bigger than the ocean is the sky, and what is bigger than the sky is the human heart. All of them are dialectics that show the unity of the opposition between the finite and the infinite of the mind.
The history of ancient and modern China and foreign countries shows that the most terrible thing is not those who can be seen at a glance, but those hypocrites and pseudo-Taoists who are clear on the outside and turbid on the inside. This "chameleon" is very hateful and despicable.
Such a person, such an official, such a scholar, is unguardable, and he is a sanctimonious old fox, such as Tang Chengqi, former member of the Standing Committee of the Nanchang Municipal Party Committee and secretary of the Nanchang County Party Committee, who is well versed in the laws of officialdom and has countless halos on his head, and was once called a person who "achieved miracles" in economic development. However, it was this Tang Chengqi who finally became the "culprit" of corruption from an "economic talent", due to more than 39.01 million yuan, dereliction of duty and abuse of power, causing national losses 2More than 800 million yuan, and was sentenced to death with a reprieve by the Intermediate People's Court of Ganzhou City, Jiangxi Province.
The "economic talent" who once attracted investment has grown from a primary school teacher to a "star" of the county party secretaryShenzhen Mayor Xu Zongheng is suspected of serious violations of disciplinehimFor many years, he has been active in the political arena of the two places as a "promoter of Hong Kong-Shenzhen cooperation", and has a high rate in Hong Kong, so the news of his "accident" not only shocked Guangdong, but also attracted great attention in Hong Kong. Xu Zongheng attended the Shenzhen Municipal Clean Government Work Conference and emphasized that "we should insist on grasping economic development with one hand and building a clean government with the other, and promote the city's first-class system to fight corruption and promote clean government to a new level." "How do you know that he did not grasp the construction of a clean government, but he was involved in a storm of clean government. There is also a series of corruption incidents such as Xu Jiayin and so on
All provenThroughout the ages, all suffering, tragedy, etc., is the result of excessive greed. If it is too turbid, it will be filthy, if it is too turbid, it will be rotten, and if it is rotten, it will be corrupted. Extended to people's thoughts, thoughts, behaviors, and turbidity are greed, lust, and so on, which cannot be self-controlledof the postFruit.
Greed together, suddenly fall into "ignorance", or stupidity or stupidity, and never return. Looking back on history, isn't every catastrophe of human blood and fire caused by human greed and stupidity? For example, the destruction of the glorious and prosperous ancient Roman Empire, the collapse of the third empire of the mighty Dexuanzhi, the fate of the invincible Napoleon, the decline of the turbulent Qing Dynasty and ......so on.
The blessings and misfortunes of life are all caused by thoughts. Therefore, Shi Shiyun:SixDesire is a fire pit. If you are greedy and indulge, you will be a sea of suffering. A pure thought turns into a pool of flames. A thought of surprise, sailing to the other side. The thoughts are slightly different, and the realm is different.
Over the past 0 years, more than 1,200 entrepreneurs have committed suicide, they are either for fame or profit or power, in short, they are too greedy, beyond the limit of life to bear, and end their "tragedy" that should not have been formed by suicide. If there is an afterlife, I don't know what choice they will make......
AuthorWhen fishing by the river, I occasionally have an understanding, and I might as well learn the way of the river. If the water velocity of the center of the river and the bank of the river are different, so the degree of turbidity is also different, can it be used as the way of people, that is, the bones can be clear, but the behavior and words can not be too clear. Specifically, the behavior can be accommodating, but the mind should be deeply virtuous and pure, and the heart should avoid pollution. From the way of calligraphy, it is "soft on the outside and rigid on the inside", and the calligraphy style of iron wrapped in cotton. For example, the calligraphy style of Mr. Liu Yong in the Qing Dynasty and Su Shi in the Song Dynasty is about the same.
In short,Of course, you can't be cynical and play life, but you can't be too serious and careful. If you take it too seriously, you will not be accustomed to anything, you will not even tolerate a friend, and you will isolate yourself from society. All those who can achieve great things have an excellent quality and cultivation, that is, they can tolerate what others cannot tolerate, endure what others cannot tolerate, be good at seeking common ground while reserving differences, and tolerate the majority of people. And very open-minded, open-minded and informal, focus on the big picture and will not look like a bean, never care, entangled in non-principled trivial matters, so in order to achieve great things and establish great causes.
To be a person, we must not only grasp the degree of turbidity by ourselves, but also learn to practice a pair of "fiery eyes", so as to always see through the other party's "turbidity" true face, and not be "clear" by it, and not argue about the "true turbidity", then you can only blame yourself for the cloudy eyes, or have no eyes.