In this complex world, who wouldn't want to lead their destiny to a brighter future? As the saying goes,"People go to higher places, and water flows to lower places"But how can we get our lives out of the so-called bottom and achieve a qualitative leap? Let me tell you, my dear, sometimes the key to changing your destiny is who you choose to be with.
First of all, understand that stay away from people who always belittle you. You know, there was a young man named Wallach, and his story was inspiring. He was once told that neither literature nor painting was his thing, but he turned to chemistry and won the Nobel Prize! What does this story tell us? Everyone has their own light, but only if you find people who can see your light, not people who will only frame you with negative labels. We have to learn to tear off those labels, move forward bravely towards the sun.
Then, you have to learn to stay away from those who habitually contradict you. Remember Cao Cao of the Three Kingdoms? Yang Xiu and Kong Rong next to him, one is smart but always refutes, the other is outspoken but always refutes, what is the ending of the last two? Nothing came to an end. In life, although we can't make extreme decisions like Cao Cao, we can choose to stay away from those who always contradict us. To err is human? Yes, no one is perfect, but there are always people who can see your light and not just pick on your thorns.
Besides, those who always praise each other, but never put it into action, also have to stay away. There was a person in the Northern Song Dynasty, Peng Ji, who loved to brag, but when he encountered a real gun, he was exposed. The real experts are those who say less and do more. If you're surrounded by people who are always boasting about things instead of actually doing things, you have to be careful. Real gold is not afraid of fire, and it has to be down-to-earth in life and work.
Finally, stay away from people who are always complaining about society. Life is not easy, it is true, but always complaining that it does not solve the problem. Recalling Yu Xiaomao, the beggar who gave Hu Xueyan a few pennies, his small act of kindness finally won Hu Xueyan's return. That said, your attitude determines your height. Complaining can never solve the problem, and only by facing it positively can we open up a new world.
So, my friend, if you want your destiny to get better and better, you have to learn to choose your social circle. Don't always hang out with people who don't see your light, and don't always hang out with people who only complain. If you want to be a swan, you can't always mix in a duck pile; If you want to go far, you can't always be in the company of people who are content with the status quo.
People with good fates are often because they have chosen the right relationships. Your environment, your friends, and your social circle can all influence your thoughts and behaviors before you know it. Therefore, choose the right person and take the right path, and your destiny will naturally get better and better.
Remember, changing your destiny is not something that happens overnight, it requires you to continue to learn, grow, and choose. But the most important thing is that you have to have the courage to stay away from those who have negative energy, to be close to those who can give you positive energy. In this way, there will be more possibilities in your life.
Getting out of the bottom and moving towards a higher place is what everyone should pursue. But remember, in this process, the most important thing is to choose and decide. Choose the right relationships and determine the direction of your life. When you start to change your choices, you will find that fate is also quietly changing for you.
So, from now on, take a look at your social circle, think about your options, and be brave enough to step out of your comfort zone. Remember, your destiny is in your own hands. Let's move forward bravely towards a better future together!