I am a 58-year-old lady born in 1965, and I will soon be 60 years old. Nearly 60 years old, I deeply feel the grievances and helplessness in life, and only sisters of the same age can truly understand.
After retiring, he found that his pension was only 2,000 yuan, and he had no money on hand, so he was forced to work for 8 years, get up at 5 o'clock every morning, and insist on working until now. I wanted to go to the south to work for 10 years, and I worked hard to earn some savings, but I spent all of it on buying a house, buying a car, and a bride price for my son's marriage, and there was nothing left. As a result, I now have no savings at all, so I can only continue to work to make money.
I'm not alone, I'm in the same situation, and many women in their 60s are facing the same dilemma. Some even have to take care of grandchildren, and some even have to take care of their grandmothers. Some mothers-in-law not only contribute but also have to pay, like me, who don't have to bring grandchildren but have no money on hand, so they can only continue to work. No matter what, every mother-in-law is helpless and bears the burden silently.
In addition to financial pressure, women in their 60s also have to face various physical discomforts. Dizziness, insomnia, backache, dryness and pain, numbness of fingers, and ...... heels that dare not touch the groundWe either go to the hospital** every day or are ready to go to the hospital for check-ups. But the doctor couldn't tell what was wrong. When others see these symptoms, they may think that we are finding fault, but in fact we are really wronged.
Women in their 60s not only face pressure from their husbands, but also have to take care of their elderly parents. If your parents can take care of themselves, they just need to visit them regularly and help with cleaning and so on. But if parents can't take care of themselves, then the problem is in trouble. And everyone thinks that it is more convenient for daughters to take care of their parents. But no one knows that these women who are nearly 60 years old are unable to protect themselves, but they have to drag their sick bodies to take care of their elderly parents, and this kind of bitterness and grievance can only be experienced by ourselves.
In short, a woman who is nearly 60 years old is really aggrieved and helpless: she has no money and can only continue to work; Bringing grandchildren is hard and helpless; Lack of understanding by family members in the face of physical problems; The pressure on her husband is unbearable; I also have to take care of the grievances brought by my parents. Life is really hard, hard and tiring, and we have no choice but to grit our teeth and comfort ourselves, hoping that the future will get better and better.
But even in the midst of these grievances and helplessness, we still maintain a strong heart. We know that we are giving for the happiness and stability of our family. Despite the difficult circumstances, we worked hard, took care of our families, and gradually got used to this life. We don't seek sympathy, we just want a little understanding and respect because we deserve to be cherished.
Therefore, no matter how much pressure and predicament women in their 60s face, we will stick to our original intention, bear it silently, and pay silently. We are beings to be reckoned with, and we should be seen and respected. Let's work together to give women in their 60s the attention and support they deserve in society.
February** Dynamic Incentive Program