Men and women want to be loved just as much, but there are differences in the way men and women think differently and need love from each other.
Women love the way men need to keep their hearts and make intimate relationships healthy and long-lasting.
Men's thinking tends to be results-oriented. A man does not fall in love with his ears, and even he will think that when a woman expresses her love in words, it is often a kind of emotional blackmail.
Because a woman's verbal show of love often requires a positive response from a man, otherwise a woman is prone to emotional problems, which in turn will bring new troubles and troubles to men, so it is difficult for men to feel love from love words alone.
You can play tricks on a man, but never hurt his self-esteem. Good noodles have been a man's weakness throughout the agesTherefore, respect for them is their first need, and women want to keep men's hearts and learn to meet men's core needs.
Effective communication can bring couples closer together, and if a woman wants to keep a man's heart, she must learn the art of communication and make him feel needed.
What men sometimes need is a sense of being in charge, but they don't have to make decisions. Men need their partners to consult him appropriately when communicating, and he needs to analyze specific problems when there are conflicts.
Women's emotional accusations and complaints will make men fall into negative emotions, hurt their self-esteem, and slowly choose to avoid communication to avoid conflict recurrence.
The division of men's social roles affects their self-evaluation systemThey need proper praise and appreciation to maintain their dignity.
In life, if someone denies it, as a partner, don't go along with it, but try to affirm its advantages with the eyes that find beauty, defend him with an appreciative gaze, and protect a man's self-esteem will make him extra dependent on you.
In the face of men's shortcomings, you can communicate privately, no matter what the other party does wrong, don't ** in public, and don't count them in private, and analyze the specific problems of the other party in order to accept it calmly.
Men want the other person to have a moderate amount of blank space in the relationship, so that he can face the things that are within his responsibility. As a woman, within the scope of her own surplus and affordability, she will not cause pressure on men if she does not ask for anything in return.
When two people are together, they still have to take responsibility for their own problems in life, because you will eventually find that intimacy is walking different paths together.
Excessive giving often hides deep expectations, which is equivalent to projecting one's own life and energy and pinning one's hopes on the other party. Mere support and understanding requires neither effort nor demand anything in return.
In this way, they are independent of each other, and there is no internal friction, and the other party feels supported mentallyIf a woman can do this, she will naturally be able to keep the man's heart.
I am a profound, national second-level psychological counselor, translator of the book "Nonviolent Communication ยท Translator of "Gender Chapter", member of Dalian Psychological Association, 34 years old, married with children, willing to share my attitude