Because I have a baby boy at home, I feel like I'm aroundThe family of the male treasureThat's a lot. Because they often choose to play with their children, they naturally come into contact with more boy families. The topics that we parents discuss on a daily basis are all aboutThe problem of boys' education。We have parents of boys who always complainBoys are not easy to educate, it's better to be a girl. At this time, the parents of girls were unwilling to say,It's the same for boys and girls, naughty ones are also difficult to discipline.
Just the other day, we organized it againKids party。After seeing the boys who grew up, the mothers of the baby girls no longer said that the boys and girls were the same. The children all grew from small bean sprouts to 5-year-old little princesses and little princes. When you get together, you can clearly feel it, girlsQuiet and well-behaved。The boys, on the other hand, are running aroundNoisy and noisy, being a mother can't stop yelling a few times.
In fact, our education of boys is nothing more than hope, and theyThe future can growTalents who are the pillars of the country and society. Now our generation of parents, andDon't expect them extravagantlycan support us in old age, I just hope that they will have a smooth life. I can grow upReal manhoodIn the future, he can become a qualified good man, a good husband and a good father. But looking at today's society, many men don'tMasculine
Once I took a child on a bus, and a man combed itLong braids, longer than my hair. The child is curiousAsked secretlyMe: "Mom, is that an aunt or an uncle?" I said it was my uncle, and the child asked, "Why does my uncle have long hair, just like a girl?" All I can tell him is that everyone has itPersonal preference。We wantRespect otherspreference, noFinger and point
The child seems to understand whether he understands or not, but in my heart, I still don't want my child to become such a man in the future. The figure is better than mine, and the legs are thinner than mine, a littleManhoodNone of them. So from a young age, onEducate good boys with three viewsis very important. And the key to education is the boysDaddyAfter all, only men know the child's heart and world best. So what should the child's father do to make the boy better?
1. Mom is a girl, let's protect her together
In families with boys, mothers have to learnShow weakness。Parenting SpecialistLi MeijinTeacher, too. Everyone thinks, you live in the boys' dormitory, do you want to be an aunt or a baby in the dormitory? Then the latter must be chosen, so in the process of the child's growth, what the mother can let the child do, justLet the child do it。Or letThe child does it with the dad, it's good to be only responsible for being a princess.
If the child is reluctant,Dad was going to tellChild. Because mom is a girl, we have to love her and care for her together, and wantProtect her well。In the long run, children will be more responsible and become smallManly
2. Dad believes in you, you can do it
When the child is in trouble,Daddy's encouragementIt is also very important. I want a boy to becomeBe brave and responsiblewill be educated by setbacks and grow up from failure after failure. When it fails, if the father givesEncouragement and support, boysSelf-confidenceIt will be more sufficient. When a boy is faced with a difficult task, he can say to him: "Daddy believes in you, you can do it, come on".
3. Don't be afraid, move forward bravely
When a boy grows up, he always encounters a lot of things to be afraid of. For example, when encountering a big bug, the child does not dare to move forward. At this timeFatherDon't be afraidCourage to move forward, is the biggest for boysEncouragement and support。The child will also try to move forward without the bugs. After walking through, you will find that bugs are not scary.
There are a lot of things like this going on in lifeFatherYou can encourage your child and let your child do thisMore courage。When my son was learning to roller skate, he kept muttering, "I'm a boy, I want it."Have courage。I was deeply touched by the cuteness of my appearance, and this is also the credit of my father!
If parents are still confused about raising boys, buy a copy of ".Raising boys>> Check it out. This book is a book clubTeacher Fan Deng, a highly recommended book. It was also after reading this parenting book that he had a new perspective on his family's education. The difference between boys and girls is still very large, fromhormonal developmentcauses their brains to develop differently. Girls develop faster, but boys are more willing to exercise, thinking about playing all day long, and can't concentrate.
And in this book "Raising Boys", parents are clearly told how to raise boys aged 6-12. In particular, it is notedFather in the process of educating boysrole. The book introduces how to grasp the critical period of boys' growth and how to cultivate themBoy's confident state of mind, how to make the boy moreCourage and responsibility, how to cultivateBoy self-disciplineWait a minute. This book can easily ease the anxiety of parents on the road to educating boys and let boys beReal manhood