The embarrassing scene of the New Year, why does the child refuse to pay New Year's greetings? Psychologists are here to uncover the secret!
During the Chinese New Year, adults sit around and talk about family life, and children play in the crowd. But there are always a few "stubborn" little guys who refuse to give New Year's greetings to their elders when they say anything, which makes the atmosphere embarrassing for a while. Why is that? As a psychological counselor, today I will reveal to you the careful thinking of children, as well as super practical coping methods!
Xiao Ming is one such example. During the Spring Festival last year, he refused to give New Year's greetings to his grandparents, and no matter how much the adults persuaded him. In the end, Xiao Ming hid in the room and cried. Later, after understanding, it turned out that Xiao Ming felt that New Year's greetings were a "very stupid" thing, and he felt that he had grown up and didn't want to do these "childish" behaviors anymore.
In fact, Xiao Ming's situation is not unique. Many children will experience some psychological changes in the process of growing up, such as the improvement of self-awareness, the review of social behavior, etc. These changes can make them resistant to some traditional practices.
So, how do we as parents respond? First, try to understand your child's thoughts and don't force them to do things they don't want to do. Secondly, through storytelling, games, etc., children can understand the meaning and value of New Year's greetings, so that they can accept this traditional custom in a relaxed and happy atmosphere.
Of course, if the child really doesn't want to pay New Year's greetings, there is no need to force it. Every child has their own pace and way of growth, and we need to respect their choices and give them enough understanding and support.
Finally, I want to tell you that the most important thing for the Chinese New Year is reunion and happiness. Whether or not the children pay New Year's greetings will not affect us from enjoying this wonderful moment. As long as there is love in your heart, the flavor of the New Year is naturally strong!
Psychological counseling, Spring Festival greetings, child growth, family education, traditional customs.