In the eyes of outsiders, my family's life is good, husband and wife are loving, my son is filial, and my wife and I sometimes go out for a walk after dinner, but only I know that when I go home, it is a different look.
I am the same age as my wife, I am 60 years old this year, and when I met my wife, she was just an ordinary female worker, and I worked as a technician after graduating from high school.
Although my wife is not bad, but in the final analysis, because she is not very literate, I look down on her heart, plus her mother's family is very poor, there are several younger brothers and sisters in the family, my wife is dark, and she speaks straight, and I regret it a little after I get married.
At that time, not only me, but even my mother didn't like this daughter-in-law, and I always felt that she was the most annoying among my daughters-in-law, and I was even more angry when I saw that my sister-in-law and younger siblings would make my mother happy.
Fortunately, in the third year of marriage, my wife gave birth to a big fat boy for me.
My mother said that I was fortunate to look like me, but ** with my mother's black and swarthy, the birth of my son made my small family life gradually better.
At that time, I followed my friends to do mechanical parts business, and I was lucky, I made a lot of money in less than half a year, and I naturally felt that I had face in front of my wife, so I gave the money to my wife for safekeeping, and my wife accepted it happily.
Because of business, I traveled a lot later, and every time I came back, my mother came to me.
She told me quietly that I was wary of my wife, and that my wife would take advantage of my absence to go back to her parents' house twice in three days, and she must have taken all the money I earned back to her parents' house.
At that time, my mother always secretly followed my wife, and when she came back, she told me that I couldn't get angry with my wife!
My wife was not to be outdone, she emphasized that she didn't spend money indiscriminately, and said in front of me that my mother was a-stirring stick, which made the family unpeaceful, and when I heard her say this about my mother, I immediately couldn't get angry and it was a slap!
It was because of this slap that interrupted our husband and wife relationship!
My wife later gave me all the money and filed for divorce from me.
I also regretted that I was too impulsive at the time, but my wife spoke too straightly, and she was so disrespectful to her elders, I couldn't tolerate it, but looking at my young son, I couldn't bear it, so I didn't agree to the divorce.
In fact, my wife regretted saying this, thinking that she was divorced as a woman, and she could go to **, her own money could not support the children, and there was no way for our couple to continue to live together in a daze.
But I'm also a lot more cautious about money.
Since then, the money for doing business has been kept by me, and my wife has a strong personality, she has never asked me for money again, and we have agreed to pay half of the living expenses and half of the children's tuition fees in the future.
After more than 20 years, my wife continued to work, I went out to do business, I was careless outside, she didn't ask, as long as I paid my living expenses normally at the end of the month.
This kind of life makes our feelings gradually fade, although we are husband and wife outside, but when we come home, we do our own work, my wife is not like other women, there seems to be no requirement for life, people want to wear good clothes, eat well, she seems to have nothing to do, except for going to work and going home to do housework.
I have also earned a lot of money over the years, and my son's later college tuition was paid by me, including the later marriage and purchase of a house, and the down payment of 600,000 yuan was also paid by me, and I kept all my own money, and my wife didn't ask or understand how much money I had.
Since her retirement, my wife has received a retirement salary every month, except for going to her son's house to help take care of her grandson, and occasionally visiting the supermarket with her colleagues, she rarely goes out.
And I was completely relaxed, I saved 1.2 million pension money for myself, and I went out with friends for tea and fishing every day, and I never took my wife out.
Usually when I go home, there are ready-made meals at home, and I eat them when they are hot.
If I don't go home, my wife won't call me and ask me, and only on weekends will my wife tell me that my son's family will come back and let me stay at home for dinner.
My son's family of three came back, everyone happily got together to eat and chat, and when my son left, my wife cleaned up and went into her room, almost 20 years we have been sleeping in separate rooms, I can't tell whether the relationship is whether the husband and wife are family or friends.
In fact, for this kind of relationship, I don't care, I am also 60 years old, they all say that as long as there is a good body, enough money to do, I have both of these points, not to mention that I also have a large group of friends, we get together for three days to play, every day is full of arrangements.
As for whether there is a woman in the family or not, I don't care, I think there is really something in the future, I still have a son to rely on, after all, I have paid the most to him in my life, from his school to marriage, I spent so much money.
But then I realized that I was completely wrong.
At the end of last year, I felt dizzy at the poker table, and on the way back, when I saw the green light, my hands and feet would not listen to the command, and people would faint.
When I was taken to the hospital, I was in a coma, and later I learned that I had been in the ICU for half a month.
Because of the special location of the cerebral hemorrhage, I couldn't even do the surgery, so I had to use medicine to promote the self-absorption of blood vessels, so I stayed in the hospital for more than half a year.
Although the son and daughter-in-law are filial, they can't take a long vacation, so the son has to ask for a wife.
Later, my wife has been with me, from the hospital and then to the ** hospital until I went home, she has been taking care of me, although my wife is still a little rushed, but I am really careful to take care of me.
Because I couldn't move, she had to rub my body every day, and then she was afraid that my muscles would be stiff, so she massaged me several times a day.
After I recovered a little, the doctor encouraged me to go out to exercise, but I couldn't put it down, and I always felt that walking dragged out and dragged people to laugh, and it was my wife who accompanied me every day and encouraged me, so I survived.
Now I'm back to eating independently with chopsticks and can talk to people very clearly, but my old friends don't come to me anymore, and I know they don't want to contact me anymore.
But my wife, who has been cold to me for decades, has never given up on me and has always been with me.
Originally, in the past 20 years, our relationship has been very cold, she can neither see nor touch the money I earn, she herself lives on that retirement salary, I am still a little proud and proud, and even look down on her.
Who knows that I was really wrong, I shouldn't have been transferred by my mother back then, and I was completely separated from my wife financially, so that she was disheartened, because I was extremely distrustful of her, and she was completely chilled by me, but no matter what I am now, she still hasn't given up on me, and I am really grateful in my heart.
I used to think that at this age, as long as I had money in my hands and a good body, I would not be afraid of anything, even if there was no woman, but now reality has given me a resounding slap in the face.
It turns out that the company between husband and wife is the most precious.
It is said that adversity sees true love, and this sentence is really true.