1.About work.
Kazuo Inamori said that "work" hides a great power that can help you overcome the suffering of fate and bring light and hope to life.After graduating, the child worked part-time in a vocational education and training institution for a period of time, which can be regarded as a job.
Now I am looking for a job again, and I have a new understanding of work, and I have some consensus:
Work not only helps us to obtain material things so that we can live a better life, but also sharpens our will, enhances self-confidence, makes us happy, and is full of hope for life.
In 2023, I'm sick half the time and I'm working half the time; Even when I'm sick, I'm trying to work hard. Especially now that I am working as a nursery teacher, I feel more valuable.
Work also makes me happier.
2.About not staying up late.
The child replied to me on WeChat at nine o'clock in the evening: "Mommy, good night." ”
Because before I go to bed, I often shout on WeChat: "Bao, we are sleeping." ”
Sometimes when I take Dabao who sleeps at the customer's house, we will shout together on WeChat: "The early bird has worms, and there is something good waiting for you tomorrow." Good night! see you tomorrow!”
Everyone knows the harm of staying up late to the body.
But people who can really not stay up late are still commendable.
I used to go to bed late.
Since last year's sunshine, my life was irregular, I didn't take care of myself, and after a serious illness, I really realized the importance of physical health, and I began to pay attention to not staying up late and exercising.
I also often tell my children who are alone at home not to stay up late. Go to bed early, wake up early, you can read books and read mobile phones in the same way, but the work and rest are regular, and the body will become healthier and healthier.
So the child took the initiative to ask: "Mom, call me when you sleep." ”
3.About eating.
Eat well, and eat regularly.
Last year, after I was young, I stayed at home alone, and my meals were irregular, sometimes I only ate one meal a day, and I was seriously ill and almost lost my life.
Learn from the pain, and know how important it is for people's health to eat regularly and eat well.
Later, when I gradually recovered and met with my child, I told him about this lesson, and he said very seriously, "Mom, you have to take care of yourself!" I now buy my own groceries and cook, and I bring food to work, and my colleagues are very envious of me for cooking. ”
It is true that the child takes good care of himself. Always share the food you make to me.
4.About marriage.
Mom, you're so nice! I was a little flattered that the child suddenly said something inexplicable.
What's wrong? "I have nothing to do.
You never rushed me to marry. The child smiled at me.
When I went back on National Day, I chatted with my children while eating, and I learned that my classmates and friends had experienced being urged to marry. Even TA's old father was drunk and spit out the truth, hoping that his future son-in-law would buy him a good car to drive.
Again, I seriously talked to my children about this topic.
Mom has experienced an unhappy marriage and knows the current social situation, so she doesn't want you to get married blindly, but only hopes that you will respect your choice after being clear about your needs. Again, I respect your choice. Even if you don't get married, don't have children. Mom will support you. ”
Yes, child, if you are going to get married, I want you to meet a good person, love each other, and be with you until you grow old.
If you meet someone who is not your lover, you must also have the courage to start over and live your life wonderfully.
If you choose to be celibate, then move with your heart, stretch freely, and walk towards the light.
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