How can I protect myself and my mother in the face of a fussy mother-in-law?
In married life, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is always a sensitive topic. I am no exception, my mother-in-law is very picky, and since I married into my mother-in-law's family, all the housework in the family has fallen on me. The mother-in-law lived at home with clothes to stretch out her hands and food to open her mouth. If there's something to do, just call me to do it, and just use your mouth to do it.
When I was pregnant, I found my mother-in-law unreliable. So, I asked my mother to come and take care of me. After all, the mother's care is much more intimate. However, what I didn't expect was that my mother-in-law, who usually pointed fingers at me, now started pointing fingers at my mother again. It was very hard for my mother to come and take care of me, and I had to be instructed by my mother-in-law, which made me very unbearable.
Once, when my mother-in-law was directing my mother's work again, I couldn't stand it anymore. Taking care of my daughter-in-law's confinement is a natural thing, and if my mother-in-law is not willing to take care of her, I will ask my mother to come over. However, I didn't expect my mother-in-law to be so aggressive. Not only did she point fingers at me, but now she wants to point fingers at my mother.
Mother-in-law, you don't take care of my confinement, I asked my mother to come and take care of me. Usually you just point fingers at me, but now you want to point fingers at my mother, you don't have the qualifications. I said to my mother-in-law.
Isn't it just asking her to do something for me? What's the big deal, don't do it if you don't do it, what's the big deal! "Seeing my mother-in-law say it so rightly, I really can't stand it. After my husband came back in the evening, I told my husband that I had to move out after the confinement and then live with my mother-in-law, I didn't dare to guarantee what I would say and do something.
So when it comes to facing a picky mother-in-law, how should we protect ourselves and our mother? How should we protect our rights and interests in married life? Welcome to leave a message to discuss!