After raising 8 Golden Shadows with a salary of 38 yuan, the childhood experience of a well known ac

Mondo Social Updated on 2024-02-16

When it comes to Jiang Wenli, the first thing that many people think of is Wen Li, who has been working hand in hand with her husband for 50 years in "Golden Wedding", Jiang Lu who is full of personality in "Happiness Knocks on the Door", and Xu Huizhen who is facing difficulties in "Little Women Under Zhengyang Gate". In fact, since her debut at the age of 19, Jiang Wenli has created many roles, large and small, and she has accurately grasped all kinds of personalities, and has won a total of 8 actresses. But what is very deeply rooted in the hearts of the audience is her portrayal of the roles of wife and mother, especially when she plays the role of a mother, many educational concepts have triggered a lot of realistic thinking. For example, "Golden Wedding" made many viewers realize that a stable family environment can allow children to gain enough love and security, as well as the ability to enjoy their own lives.

Golden Wedding" stills, such as "Little Women Under Zhengyang Gate", made many viewers understand that what kind of people parents are greatly affects what kind of children children will grow up into.

The stills of Jiang Wenli under Zhengyang Gate all say that art is ** in life, in fact, the reason why Jiang Wenli can resonate with everyone in the interpretation of "parenting" is that her own growth experience is the key, especially the 13 years that she and her grandfather have been together. As the third daughter in the family, Jiang Wenli's birth made her mother's life at her grandparents' house even harder. In addition, my father was away all the year round, so in a fit of anger, my mother moved back to her house with the children on the grounds that my grandfather was old and needed to be taken care of. Because the eldest daughter and the second daughter are already in kindergarten, grandpa only needs to be responsible for picking up and dropping off, but Wenli is still young, so she needs her mother to take her with her at all times, even when she is working. When she was young, her well-behaved and obedient mother didn't bother much, but when she reached the age of kindergarten, her crying was worse than that of her two sisters, and even to the extent that she couldn't stay in kindergarten. But here, my mother needs to go to work to supplement the family, so I have no choice but to let Wenli live with her grandfather, who is in his 80s. So, from that day on, the 80-year-old grandfather became the person Jiang Wenli could rely on the most in her childhood.

Stills from the movie "See You in Heaven": Many of the plots in the film are based on the time Jiang Wenli spent with her grandfather when she was a child. After her grandfather died, Jiang Wenli always wanted to do something to miss him, and the script was brewing for many years, and it took nearly 5 years to really write it. Grandpa is actually a very miserable person. Although as a train driver at the time, he was not paid a low salary and had a decent job, but his family life was not very satisfactory.

Grandpa originally had three daughters and a son, but most of the children were not in good health, and only Jiang Wenli's mother could live to adulthood safely, which hit Jiang Wenli's grandfather very hard, so he once gave up on himself. During the time of living in chaos, it was Jiang Wenli's mother, who was still young, who made him regain hope in life, and regarded the only daughter left behind as a support for life and spirit. Because he has been babying his daughter since he was a child, his grandfather also loves and cares about his daughter's children. Although Jiang Wenli was born, his grandfather was already very old, but he never cut his love for his granddaughter because of this. He will wear glasses to carefully comb Wenli's braids, he will not be able to help her coquettish to buy Wenli the rag doll she likes, and he will buy Wenli the candy ...... she likes as soon as she receives her salaryIn short, the old and the young are always inseparable.

Childhood Jiang Wenli and grandpaWhen Grandpa got a haircut, Wenli was playing on the side;When Grandpa went to drink, Wenli followed behind;Even when grandpa and friends meet, Wenli is always there. This is also the reason why Wenli later chatted with tears about the story between her and her grandfather on the talk show, and her grandfather's old friends appeared to meet. It can be said that grandpa's kindness to Wenli and Wenli's longing for grandpa have been witnessed by the people around her, or even more people. It stands to reason that a sheltered childhood should be carefree, but Jiang Wenli seems to be different. Because she was born in a different era, because her surname was not popular back then, there will always be all kinds of malice in Wenli. The children who go to school together, at an age when they can't distinguish between good and evil, regard Wenli as an object that can be "harmed" for no reason. They would talk about her, they would scold her behind her back, and they would write words attacking her.

Jiang Wenli when she was a child.

You know, Wen Li was still young at that time, and she didn't understand why she wasn't the one she was liked. Whether it is the dislike of her grandparents or the dislike of her classmates, it is the incomprehension in her young heart, and there is a high probability that she will grow into a thorn without intervention. Fortunately, she has a warm grandfather by her side, and when she needs help, comfort, and guidance, she can always give proper guidance.

Stills from the movie "See You in Heaven" When Wenli was in elementary school, her grandfather was responsible for picking up and dropping off, but her mother was worried about her grandfather's health, so she repeatedly tried to help Wenli transfer to another school, just hoping to be closer to home and make her grandfather less hard. But this frequent transfer not only made Wenli adapt to the new environment again and again, but also made her situation at school "difficult". It is difficult for her to really fit into a new class group, let alone submit to friends who share her preferences, so her classmates are estranged from her, and the teachers do not evaluate her positively. For this reason, Xiao Wenli was distressed.

These things may not be a problem in the eyes of ordinary parents, but in fact, they are the vast majority of children's lives and cannot be easily ignored. Fortunately, the grandfather noticed his granddaughter's predicament, and in order to help his granddaughter jump out of the predicament that she did not create. Grandpa invited Wenli's entire class to his home. He first generously and warmly entertained the students with sweets and snacks, and then reminded the students not to bully Wenli for no reason, otherwise they would find the teacher to administer justice. Not to mention back then, grandpa's behavior, even now, will make the child psychologically warm, because too many parents only think that the conflict between their children and classmates is a "joke" made by children. Never really take a child's situation at school seriously, let alone think of a proper solution and put it into practice. Therefore, whether it is grandpa's considerate care in life, or helping Wenli solve the difficulties in growing up, it is grandpa who gave Wenli the confidence to grow up seriously. Of course, "maintenance" alone is not enough, grandpa also has a very "strict" side to Wenli. Grandpa has a lot of friends, so people often come to the house. Once a guest arrived, my grandfather would always do his best to entertain him, so there was an endless stream of people who came to eat at the house, including engineers, opera actors, scholars and other people from all walks of life. In fact, to some extent, this is the result of grandpa's good relationship. But at that time, every family was living a relatively poor life, and although my grandfather's salary was 38 yuan, it was not enough to entertain so many guests in addition to taking care of the family.

Therefore, Wen Li, who is still young, is not happy, whenever the people who come to eat at the house leave, she will put on a bad face, although she doesn't say anything, but she is obviously sulking. Grandpa noticed his granddaughter's performance, and did not laugh at it, thinking that it was a child's little temper, but taught her very seriously about this matter. Grandpa told Wenli that everyone will have difficult days, and if it weren't for the fact that they couldn't get by, no one would run to other people's homes every day. Sometimes, it is just a pair of chopsticks for yourself, but it may be life for others.

In the subtle guidance, grandpa's education of Wenli has always permeated every part of life, and even most of them are more important than words. Although, grandpa will also have times when he can't bear it. In order to protect Wenli at that time, grandpa sent Xiao Wenli to practice gymnastics, and when the coach made it clear that she had no talent, grandpa always believed and encouraged Wenli. Buy her a gymnastics uniform, ask her neighbor to teach her the horizontal bar, and send her to practice rain or shine. Sometimes, seeing his granddaughter suffering because of practice, grandpa is also very distressed, but grandpa knows what this means to Wenli, so he will always resist the heart of taking the child away directly and let the child face the hardship.

As for Wen Li, she never lived up to her grandfather's support, others said that she was not talented, so she worked silently, and watched what others did on the side, and she did what she did. It is also because of this experience that Jiang Wenli's posture has been trained, and her acting talent has also been stimulated, and she can do everything in a good way, which also laid the foundation for her later achievements in the field of film and television. It would be nice if important people could always be there. But the mutual companionship of the next generation has never been for one paragraph.

Stills from the movie "See You in Heaven" When Jiang Wenli was 13 years old, her grandfather passed away, which was a great blow to her, as if she had lost her pillar. But life has to go on, and she can't live up to her grandfather's careful cultivation of her, so after graduating from Anhui Water Conservancy and Electric Power School and joining the work, I heard that Beijing Film Academy is taking the entrance exam. Jiang Wenli chose to give herself a chance, because she was well prepared, and Jiang Wenli successfully passed the first two levels of the exam. It wasn't until the third level that she was asked to tell an unforgettable story, and Jiang Wenli's thoughts were suddenly pulled back to the days when she lived with her grandfather. So she told the examiner about her childhood, about her grandfather's care for her, and even during the narration, she forgot that she was in the exam for a while, and her longing for her grandfather was overflowing. Because it was an expression of true feelings, although Jiang Wenli forgot that she was taking an exam, the story between her and her grandfather still moved the examiner and allowed her to enter her favorite school as she wished. After that, she shone in the field of film and television, winning many awards. It can be said that a lot of her later empathy for the role benefited from the delicate emotions given by her grandfather in her childhood. Fortunately, the thoughts are silent, otherwise it will be deafening. 30 years after her grandfather's death, Jiang Wenli's impression of her grandfather has not been diluted, but has become more profound. The longing is also more difficult to hide.

So she used the movie "See You in Heaven", which she had been preparing for 5 years, to tell a tearful grandfather and grandson relationship based on herself and her grandfather. Then, she also wrote a book about herself and her grandfather, also titled "Grandpa", to salvage the years that had disappeared in the long river of time. She said that this is her own thoughts, and it is also the thoughts of countless viewers for their relatives, I hope that my grandfather likes it, and I also hope that those who are extremely missed by their families will like it. Love is a inheritance, but also a continuation. Grandpa regarded Jiang Wenli as a treasure in the palm of his hand when he was a child, and later Jiang Wenli also tried her best to cultivate her niece Ma Sichun, and when she grew up, she finally became the one she met when she was a child.

The relatives of the next generation have always belonged to the two periods of the timeline, one is slowly aging, and the other is slowly **. Although the time of intersection is not long, the time is shallow, warm and peaceful, and good love is always instantaneous and eternal. Love, we must cherish the present, and don't let the regret of "the son wants to raise but does not wait" happens.

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