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Wen Feiyu. 
People live for a lifetime, and everything will be encountered, and anyone will encounter it.
Life is a process, but also a practice, in everything you encounter, only learn to cultivate your own mind, in order to get more things, and as long as you see everything, in order to make yourself live a relaxed and happy life.
We face life, face life, face others, we must maintain a calm attitude, with a willing attitude to live a life of peace with the situation, do not have to easily deny ourselves because of a word from others, do not hurt ourselves because of others, we have to help ourselves, if we go to cultivate our own life, we don't have to care what others say, how to see, and we don't have to explain so much, but to be ourselves.
In this life, if no one loves you, then you love yourself, and if no one helps you, you help yourself and be your own ferryman.
Despite your efforts, everything is arranged by God.
To live, people must cultivate themselves!
1. Be a broad-hearted person and see everything.
In this life, unsatisfactory things, ten of the **, we often think about one or two, do not think.
No matter what happens in life, we must relax and live, don't think about it, don't complain, don't get angry, and don't let ourselves live so embarrassed.
Instead, the heart is a little more relaxed, looking at the gains and losses, success and failure in life, the feelings in life, and the relationship between people.
When one day, when something doesn't go your way, you silently tell yourself, "It's okay".
When you're in trouble, you silently tell yourself, "It's going to be okay."
When you encounter a setback, you silently tell yourself, "It will pass."
Only people with a good mentality can constantly adjust their mentality, constantly encourage themselves, and keep themselves calm and calm, so that they can encounter the most beautiful scenery in life.
2. Be a person with a big pattern and leave room for everything.
In this life, the bigger the pattern, the wider the road of life.
If the pattern is small, then you will narrow your life path.
People who can achieve great causes, people who can have good popularity, are people with a big pattern, and a big pattern can give others tolerance and understanding, leave room for others, and give concessions to others.
If a person can't get along with others everywhere, because of some money and interests, and kills others and exhausts the organs, then he is actually blocking his own way, and if he calculates it, he will eventually count it on his head.
On the contrary, people with a large pattern can forgive others and eventually gain sincerity.
Just as Mr. Bao in "Flowers" treats Commander Cai, the two people are actually partners, and Mr. Bao's entry also depends on Commander Cai, but Commander Cai did something ashamed of Mr. Bao behind his back, and leaked all the secrets to others, so that Mr. Bao took the blame.
In fact, Mr. Bao knew that Commander Cai did it, but he didn't turn his face with him, nor did he confront him, but silently took the responsibility, which made Commander Cai feel ashamed.
It was also Mr. Bao who left room for Commander Cai, so in the end, he finally gained Commander Cai's sincerity, so that he would be sincere to him in the future, and Commander Cai would really be on the scene if there was something.
Therefore, adversity sees the truth, and over time it sees the hearts of the people.
When you leave room for others, others will remember your goodness and will be willing to help you and help you.
3. Don't be afraid of the trough and strengthen your heart.
Miss Wang in "Flowers", she was calculated by her colleagues, so she was transferred to the factory to manage the warehouse.
The work in the warehouse was dirty and tiring, and Miss Wang didn't need help from others, she always believed that she could, so she did the work overnight by herself.
But Miss Wang never complained, this was the first low point in her life, and she conquered herself and everyone with a strong heart.
In the face of success and failure, in the face of gain and loss, she can be calm and open-minded, can afford to take it, can let it go, always put in the effort, and see everything.
There is a saying that cultivating people first cultivates their hearts, and those who cross others first cross themselves, and those who cross others can also win the hearts of the people, and those who cross the heart protect their inner peace, and those who cross themselves have a beautiful life.
The highest state of life is to cultivate oneself and never forget the original intention.
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