There are eight hardships in life, and suffering is an obstacle. Whenever you face a major exam in your life, you want someone noble to pull you out of the trough. There are few noble people, but there are always those who ruin your blessings. In line with the concept of living with a good mind, when you meet these people, try to persuade them if you can, and walk away if you can't.
In the TV series "Her City", Ai Ying held a child's birthday party, and she knew very well that many people were willing to come to their home to celebrate their children's birthdays, which was nothing more than their husband's identity and status. To put it bluntly, he wanted to please his husband. Therefore, Ai Ying is very disgusted with such a banquet, which is also held for some kind of commercial purpose. She would rather spend time with her best friends than with those who flatter her.
When a person likes to please you, is he so sincere to you, it is enough to keep a bowl of water away. You don't need to invite them into your home and your life. On the surface, An Lingrong in "The Legend of Zhen Huan" is Zhen Huan's best sister. When Zhen Huan encounters difficulties, she is always the first to lend a hand. After being favored, he offered to send cloth, and when he saw that Zhen Huan was injured, he offered to send scar removal cream. However, behind these seemingly limited behaviors is a calculation implied, which laid a huge hidden danger for Zhen Huan and became Zhen Huan's most powerful enemy in the later period.
For those who are duplicitous, his mask is the most terrifying. Instead of spending your brain on calculations and beware of falling into the traps dug by the other party from time to time, choose to stay away and keep the magnetic field around you clean. People who are inconsistent in their words and deeds, lack basic honesty about themselves, do not respect themselves, and do not respect others. Such people are not only not suitable for doing things together, but also for communication. In reality, don't expect anything from those who are dishonest and don't match their words and deeds, and staying away from them is the wisest choice.
During the Warring States Period, King Qi sent people to greet Empress Zhao Wei. As soon as Zhao Wei opened his mouth, he said: "Without time, how can there be people?" "If there were no people, how could there be a king? "People can't live well without good growth; How can there be a king if there were no people? Water can carry a boat, but it can also capsize a boat. What can really dominate the world is not the big people who are on top, but countless ordinary people. A person who does not understand the feelings of the people, even if he is rich and powerful, is an unreliable person. When you associate with him, he is greedy for profit instead of being sincere with you. When you are destitute, alienating you is more than icing on the cake.
Many people believe that they can get help from others if they are with rich and powerful people. They don't know that this kind of behavior has detached them from the masses and deprived them of the basis for being and doing things. It is said that many friends have a good path to take, but you also have to think about what kind of friends and what kind of road is worth choosing. Everyone will have their own worldview, values, and outlook on life. If the three views are different, then there is no need to be friends, let alone lovers. If a person not only can't help you improve, but also drags you to do bad things, then it is definitely not a person you should cherish. It doesn't matter how good the person is.
In fact, the person who pulls you to do illegal and criminal things ruins your happiness, don't touch it, it's a cheap hand. Don't think you're just lying to him. This kind of thing, once you reach out, it's basically hard to go back.
People who can speak well often speak better than they sing. You don't know which one is real and which one is fake. Believing in such a person, or even treating such a person as a friend, talking to such a person, and even telling one's secrets to such a person, is actually a disaster.
There are those who flatter you in front of you, glorify you, denigrate you in front of others, and belittle you in front of others. One in the front, one in the back, smiling and hiding a knife. Don't associate with such people, it's a blessing to stay away. In life you never know how dangerous the heart is.
The more despicable people are, they tend to wear the mask of kindness. Some people don't laugh and talk wildly, but they calculate you, deceive you, let you be deceived, and become the object of others' use.
There is a hot word on the Internet called "licking dogs". What is "licking the dog"?It means that a person blindly treats others with kindness, regardless of their attitudes, humbling himself to the extreme, like a pet in captivity. To put it mildly, licking the dog is not a good end, whether it is a love to lick the dog or an emotional licking of the dog, licking once, the personality will be less, and in the end, you may lose your backbone.
When dealing with others, you only need to stick to one principle and give only once. If the other person appreciates, the relationship can continue, and if the other person does not appreciate it, it is no longer a relationship. It's impossible for people who like to lie to get to the bottom of it, and it's impossible for you to know what such people are thinking and what they're going to say, which is a huge hidden danger.
Without integrity, you will be tired when you decide what to do, and he will always miss the appointment and mess up your plans. People who like to lie are hypocritical and selfish, and they have many eyes. They are your friends today and may be your friends tomorrow.
Liars can easily get into trouble, and if you get along with him, you will plant a bomb in your body, and you don't know when they will be implicated. A whistleblower is like a ticking time bomb that can ruin you at any moment.
Because the so-called shooting is easy to hide in the back, this kind of person likes to gossip behind the backs of others, create rumors, ruin your reputation, and make you have a bad impression in the leadership in order to gain a better competitive advantage than you. They often use this tactic to crowd out competitors.
When you meet this kind of colleague who likes to talk about right and wrong, don't get to know each other and don't tell her some of your privacy. This kind of person is tight-lipped and will also make a mess for you, and it is easy to make your privacy throughout the company**. Your chances of getting a promotion or a raise could be in jeopardy.
People who like to play pranks and slander others have no real ability, and can only rely on words to satisfy themselves. A guy like that will have bad guys to deal with him. If you are close to such a person, he will definitely pull you down when he is in a bad mood. You are with them, and people will judge you differently.
As the saying goes, "Like gathers like, and people divide into groups." "What kind of person a person will become in the end is actually his own choice. Self-motivated people will naturally choose to contact more self-motivated people, and people who don't want to improve tend to make friends with a group of people who don't want to improve.
Life is like climbing a mountain, going uphill when it's hard and going downhill when it's easy. We must recognize the influence of the environment and the people around us on the spiritual level of a person. These subtle things may not be obvious at first, but over time, *** with a bad guy will appear one after the other.
People must not get close to those who do not seek progress and let them go completely, so as not to be trapped in the whirlpool of bad and unable to get out. This type of person is mainly a bargaining, greedy person. We often say that loss is a blessing, and learning to tolerate him will lead to happiness, but stingy people are always reluctant to open their hearts.
They are always afraid that they will lose, both in terms of monetary gain and in their dealings with people, and it seems that gaining the upper hand is their goal. But this is a narrow idea. Those who are always cautious will only get a small benefit for a while, but in the long run, they will definitely suffer huge losses.
They don't stand a chance to succeed in life, and they certainly don't accumulate blessings for themselves. There is a sentence in "Glory Dedication": "Good words are warm in three winters, and bad words are sad in June." "The damage caused by language is immeasurable and irreparable, like a needle in the heart.
Physical scars will heal one day, but soul wounds will never be forgiven. No matter who you're with, you have to learn to speak well. Unfortunately, people nowadays often give their best temper to outsiders and their worst temper to their family members.
Cold words are like a sharp knife that you have stabbed your loved ones to the ground and completely destroyed them before you know it. The so-called heartless person is a person who does not know how to be grateful, that is, if you are good to her, when it comes to the matter of interests, he will ruthlessly betray you.
There is no such thing as loyalty in them, only interest. Affection is like playing the harp to a cow. When you meet such people, no matter how beautiful their words are, you should keep your eyes open and be vigilant. While our blessings depend on our own practices, they also depend on the blessings of those around us.
If there is good in the heart, then life will naturally be smooth and peaceful, and blessings will follow. If the heart is sad, then life must be miserable, and happiness is gone. So, stay away from such people, let's cultivate our hearts in peace, let good luck, and make life happy.