"If I have a next life, I don't want my father, my family, or my children, I want to be alone. ”
Ni Ping said these words affectionately, and also evoked some unknown past.
She has been through three marriages and five relationships, which has brought her many traumas, the deepest of which may be the experience with Wang Wenlan, the second husband.
At the age of 40, she took great risks to give birth to her son, but within a few months it was discovered that the baby had congenital cataracts.
Ni Ping wholeheartedly treated her son, but at this time, Wang Wenlan, who was a father, filed for divorce.
He built a courtyard house in Beijing in order to pursue Ni Ping, and obviously he was not short of money.
Why did Ni Ping choose to leave when he needed him? What exactly was the reason for the breakdown of their marriage?
Ni Ping is an authentic Shandong girl, born in Weihai, and later went to school in Qingdao and Jinan.
However, who would have thought that Sister Ni Ping, a gentle and approachable lady, would grow up in a single-parent family?
Her original surname was not Ni, but Liu, and it wasn't until she left home to go to school that she went to the police station alone and changed her surname to her mother's.
Her strength and assertiveness are evident in this matter.
Guo Da was Ni Ping's first love, when he was not a sketch actor, but was performing dramas in obscurity.
However, under the opposition of the other party's parents, they finally broke up, and then Ni Ping decided to marry angrily.
After working in Shandong, he was transferred to Beijing, and due to the torment of a long-distance relationship, this originally unstable marriage soon broke down.
In order to let her ex-husband agree to the divorce, Ni Ping left her daughter to him.
After arriving in Beijing, she met Chen Kaige, who had just experienced a divorce.
She admired the director's talent very much, and Chen Kaige was attracted by her beauty and temperament and took the initiative to pursue it.
They began to live together, and Ni Ping even regarded herself as the daughter-in-law of the Chen family, but Chen Kaige always insisted that he was an unmarried person and did not marry her.
When Chen Kaige's father was seriously ill and hospitalized, Ni Ping put down his work and took care of him day and night.
His biological son was supposed to be filial piety by his side, but he was busy filming on the set.
Chen Kaige and Chen Hong actually had a scandal, and one day, Ni Ping personally went to question him and asked about the authenticity of the matter.
Chen Kaige told Ni Ping that he had nothing to do with Chen Hong, so that she could believe him.
However, when Chen Hong became pregnant with his child, she could no longer hide the incident, so the two eventually broke up.
Chen Kaige once expressed his reluctance to get married, but miraculously received a marriage certificate in the United States in the same year, which is quite ironic.
Ni Ping experienced three relationship failures, and the lack of fatherly love when she was a child made her lose confidence in love until she met Wang Wenlan.
Wang Wenlan's life experience is relatively much smoother than hers.
As a child, he loved to play basketball and photography, and his parents supported him, buying him a video camera at a time when even food and clothing were a luxury.
Wang Wenlan returned after going to the countryside to cut the queue, joined the army and engaged in propaganda work, and then entered "China**".
He gradually achieved success, rising from a small journalist position to head of the photography department, and also rose to the vice president of the Chinese Photographers Association.
Whenever a major event occurred in our country, he was always the first to rush to the front, ignoring the danger to his life, actively reporting and filming many valuable **.
Wang Wenlan is full of love for his career and has made remarkable achievements, winning awards in many national competitions, and is a leader in the Chinese photography industry.
His pursuit of art took up all his energy, so much so that by the time he was in his forties, his emotional experience was still blank.
It wasn't until he met Ni Ping that he realized the sweet taste of love.
At that time, Ni Ping had not been able to free herself from the previous relationship, but Wang Wenlan did not care about her past and was willing to marry her.
He built a courtyard house on the outskirts of Beijing, intending to bring Ni Ping's family from their hometown in Shandong to ease her worries.
Ni Ping was deeply moved and fell in love again, and eventually they tied the knot.
However, no one expected what would happen later: she risked her advanced maternal age to give birth to a son, but it became the fuse for the end of this marriage.
Wang Wenlan and Ni Ping can be said to be a match made in heaven, talented and beautiful, complementing each other.
She often rides a bicycle with him, touring the various hutongs of Beijing, photographing those ** full of market atmosphere.
The two published a photo book together as a testimony to their love for each other.
Two years have passed, Ni Ping gave birth to a son after marriage, named Huzi, and the family of three is happy and enviable.
However, while they were immersed in the joy, they were unaware of the huge twists and turns that were about to take place.
When he was three months old, Huzi was diagnosed with a congenital eye disease, and if he didn't, he would likely be blind in the future.
Hearing this bad news, Ni Ping's tears couldn't stop flowing.
With her son in her arms and her newly obtained U.S. visa in hand, she immediately went to the top federal hospital in the United States.
The doctor told her that the operation would cost $130,000, but even if Ni Ping dug into her pocket, she could only scrape together $70,000.
She even considered ** house because the family simply couldn't raise so much money.
Her brother stopped her, telling her that once they lost their house, the family would have nowhere to live, which made Ni Ping give up the idea.
She gave up all job opportunities and was on the verge of leaving. She went around seeking medical treatment with her baby in her arms, and burst into tears every day.
Wang Wenlan saw all this, but could not help, and his wife was anxious, like an ant on a hot pot. He appears powerless in all other ways except to provide money.
He couldn't even comfort her effectively, and unless her son was quick**, there was nothing to cheer up a desperate mother.
The years of separation finally exhausted their feelings and consumed Wang Wenlan's patience.
He really couldn't stand this lifeless home anymore, and he didn't want to endure his wife's resentful gaze anymore.
He filed for divorce from Ni Ping's mother and son, and left all his savings to them.
Outsiders have no idea why they divorced, and they naturally think that Wang Wenlan is unwilling to take responsibility.
In the eyes of the public, he is seen as a "scumbag" who abandons his wife and children.
Ni Ping is still fully devoted to her son, and she spares no effort in filming, because the actor's salary is higher than that of the host.
She was forced to accept reality because a huge ** expense weighed on her shoulders.
Wang Wenlan is now concentrating on his career, but he has not forgotten to take care of his son and ex-wife, handing over all his income to them and frequently traveling back and forth to the United States to visit his son.
They no longer have a mustard in their hearts, even if they can't become husband and wife, they can become close and good friends.
During the filming, Ni Ping ushered in a new love.
Director Yang Yaya fell in love with her deeply, cared for her very much, and cared for this fragile woman in every detail.
He expressed his willingness to treat Huzi as his own son, and did not care whether they had children after being together.
Ni Ping was deeply moved, she entered her third marriage, and by Yang Yaya's side, it was not easy to raise her son to get some comfort.
Ten-year-old Huzi's condition turned for the better.
The doctor stopped her that day and talked endlessly, Ni Ping was very flustered when she heard it, worried about whether her son had a new problem.
She didn't realize this was amazing good news until Huzi translated it.
The doctor said that there is no need to come to the hospital frequently, just wait for Huzi to come back again when he gets married.
After ten years of hard life, Ni Ping can finally breathe a sigh of relief. She hugged her son and cried bitterly, and the excitement in her heart could not be expressed in words.
Finally, she returned to the stage after ten years of absence, and was able to devote herself to work without distractions, and no longer feel panicked.
The son is also very promising, which makes her worry-free.
Not only does he excel in his studies, but he also earns pocket money by playing games to help his classmates level up.
When you go home for the Chinese New Year, you can generously give 100,000 yuan to your grandmother, which can make the elderly feel happy and satisfied.
Ni Ping is 173 cm tall, her mother and grandmother are also about 1.7 meters, and Wang Wenlan is as high as 1.9 meters.
Huzi grew to 186 at the age of 12, and Ni Ping was also very worried that he would not be able to find a job in the future, because he inherited the excellent genes of his parents.
Ni Ping ignored her son's education.
He was immersed in the world of games, and all day long, in addition to eating and sleeping, he was playing games.
Tomorrow I can take you to go through the withdrawal procedures, you can play games at home, Ni Ping said to him.
After thinking all night, Huzi decided to continue his school, and he took back his heart.
Although it was a considerable ** for him, between study and work, he firmly chose the former.
His stepfather cared for him and loved him even more than his own father.
Ni Ping once dreamed of having a father's love, but her family left her with regrets.
When his son was sick, Wang Wenlan couldn't stay around.
Yang Yaya fills this gap and makes her understand what a truly happy family should look like.
It's a pity that their souls, although they are in harmony with each other, met too late.
Wang Wenlan has become a loner, but there is a famous saying that "artists are lonely." His photography career is enough to satisfy his body and mind.
A person's life is not only about the love of children, perhaps the weight of family in his heart is far greater than we imagine.
Unable to live peacefully with the ideals he had pursued for most of his life, he decided to put an end to that paradoxical situation with his own hands.
The two were not suitable, and he did not have a fight with Ni Ping.
Even when he misses his son, he can visit him to find out how he is doing.
The love she lost from her father was redoubled for her son.
Wang Wenlan is alone, but his heart is full and rich, and it is still unknown whether he will regret this marriage.
The son who was supposed to be raised under his knees, but now he is called someone else's father, after all, such a thing.
Although Ni Ping is a first-class host and actor in China, she has experienced many hardships.
Fortunately, she has strong qualities, and as a great mother, she finally found the best match for her, and the two can walk together for the rest of their lives.
His marriage to Wang Wenlan ultimately comes down to differences in personality, and it does not necessarily need to be defined as right and wrong.
Fate broke them apart and gave Ni Ping a decade of sleepless nights.
I hope they can stay together for a long time until they grow old together and their son is healthy and filial, so as to make up for the hardships she has endured.
Wang Wenlan should also find a partner to take care of each other, so as not to spend his old age alone. Ni Ping