Women have a kind of mature beauty, which is a kind of beauty that is displayed after years of immersion and embellishment of the world.
This kind of beauty fades away from the youthful and bright eyes, and precipitates the quiet elegance after maturity.
A truly mature and powerful woman has arrogance in her bones, but in terms of mentality and emotion, she always maintains just the right amount of "quiet".
I've heard a saying:
"There are times in life when you have to have it, and there are times in life when you don't have delusions. ”No matter how much everyone can achieve in life, they can't escape the wheel of fate, and they can't rely on manpower to contend with it.
For the desired result, you can only maintain the mentality of "but do good deeds, don't ask about the future", do what you should do, and then wait for the flowers to bloom.
As for what will happen in the end, I believe in the truth that "if you lose your life, you will get it".
Before actor Zhao Liying became famous, she had a 10-year career and played various small roles.
These roles are not taken seriously, but she herself does it as something very important, and every time she makes herself better than the last time.
Others can't see this change, but she can feel it herself, as for how long she can be seen, she doesn't have the idea of rushing for quick success, but always silently polishes her acting skills.
Finally, at the age of 28, she became popular through a female growth inspirational drama "The Legend of Lu Zhen", which made more people remember her.
Mature women are often able to calm down to survive those moments when no one cares, and strive to accumulate their strength, they are not afraid of failure, do not panic about the future, and always keep themselves in a quiet life.
It is this perseverance that allows them to overcome failure after failure and usher in their own dazzling dawn.
How far can two people go if they love each other, until that moment, in fact, no one knows.
A mature woman never expects that love will last long, nor does she ask the other party to love her all the time.
Emotional things, like flowing water, will flow for a long time, but will stop at a shallow level, depending on whether both parties can withstand countless tests together.
In the TV series "The First Half of My Life", Tang Jing has never agreed to He Han's marriage proposal, except that she is really busy with her career, that is, she does not want to bind a relationship through marriage.
In her world, if two people are all the way, then it is the same when they get married.
Later, He Han fell in love with her best friend, she was very sad to be betrayed, but she also let go decisively and stopped pestering.
Some people say that if Tang Jing had given some time to He Han, maybe what would have happened later.
In fact, this is not the case, because the woman He Han admires is the kind of "work" that can be packaged and created by him all the time to grow, and it is obvious that Tang Jing has long been out of his control.
And in Tang Jing's life, feelings are only part of it, not all of it, so she doesn't want to control it.
In love and marriage, the more free and easy a woman is, the more she can reap unexpected joys, because when you pursue love that goes with the flow and does not set expectations, it is normal to lose and get lucky.
Maupassant said
"Only when people are quiet can they hear the true voice of their hearts. ”A mature woman who understands the power of quietness will not indulge in the hustle and bustle of the world, but live in her own quiet world and obtain full inner energy. They are quiet about life, not eager for quick success, but believe in conforming to the destiny of heaven and being grateful for all the gifts of fate.
They are quiet about their relationship and do not expect love to last long, but pursue to go with the flow and do not set expectations for their partners.
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