The good-looking skins are the same, and the interesting souls are one in a thousand.
When the sexes get along, physical appearance can make a first impression. But whether the two can go on for a long time depends on whether the souls of the two can attract each other.
Do these 3 points, and it is easy for men to die for you.
Emotionally stable
There is such a famous saying:A man who can control his emotions is greater than a general who can take a city.
Yes, people who can control their emotions and not be swallowed by emotions are truly powerful and cultivated people.
If you have to make a big deal about everything, it is most likely to punish yourself for the mistakes of others.
In the family, it is not terrible to have quarrels, but it is terrible to have out-of-control quarrels. Because the essence of a quarrel is to resolve differences, and an emotionally uncontrolled quarrel is to increase disagreements.
When a person is emotionally excited, it is easy to trigger other irrational emotions, making things more serious, which is not a good thing for others or oneself.
On the one hand, we often leave the good-tempered side to outsiders and the bad-tempered people to the closest people, thinking that the closest people will tolerate themselves unconditionally, but we don't know that feelings will be consumed by bad things.
On the other hand, a person's bad mood will be passed on to others in turn, resulting in a vicious circle, which is the "kicking cat effect" in psychology.
Bad emotions are one of the important reasons for the breakdown of family unity, and no one wants their pillow person to be constantly aggressive about them.
Remain independent
A well-known actor once publicly complained:
"It's really weird to be a man.So sad, yet so real.They don't like the kind of ordinary women who stay at home and want to marry into a good family.
But they do want to marry some independent, shiny, capable women back home, and then trap them at home to have children. ”
Every woman is exposed to this as she grows up
It's better to marry well than to do well;When you really believe this, let yourself slide slowly, and when you reach the bottom, you will suddenly realize that the gap between yourself and your partner has become so big.Don't fight so hard, I'll support you;
I am responsible for making money to support my family, and you are responsible for being beautiful like a flower;
He looks at you at the bottom of the valley from above, and leaves without looking back, and when you want to catch up with him, you find that it is a hundred times harder to climb out of this valley than to slide down.
There is a line in "Pink Girl": "Women always want to turn themselves into a mysterious peacock, and then seduce men and pluck the feathers off their bodies one by one." ”
People are profit-driven animals, they are naturally attracted to good people, and when you give up on yourself, others will give up on you.
Vitality
There is a saying that love is a projection of self-desire.
Sometimes we don't love that ta, but the one we imagine.
Love is something that has been glorified, and many people stay together because they don't know each other, and they separate because they understand each other.
When you get to know a person in all aspects and see that the other person is a pool of stagnant water, you will gradually lose interest in the other person.
But some people continue to grow all their lives, just like a book that can't be finished, no matter when, you can find new light in her.
In real life, many couples are vigorous at the beginning of their relationship, and after a period of time, they reach the burnout period, feeling that nothing is right in this relationship, the days are set in stone, and the people around them are dispensable.
Feelings no longer flow, and love is dead.
In fact, we want to have a relationship because we hope that we can gain strength in the relationship and live a better life. When you do these 3 things, you won't have a bad time anyway.
God didn't give you what you wanted, not that you didn't deserve it, but that you deserved better.
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