An account owner named "Chris" on Xiaohongshu shared his 70-year-old grandmother's divorce. The reason for the divorce is that grandpa cheated, but I don't know whether the cheating is found now or cheating when I was young, and my grandma has never been able to let go.
In short, grandma decided to divorce. Her hukou was with her eldest son-in-law, so she went to her son-in-law's house to get her hukou. After explaining the reason, he was scolded as a "madman", and he didn't get the household registration book.
Grandma walked sadly around the community garden. The owner found his grandmother and told her that there will be many people in the world who are crazy when they are women, and the words of women are empty words, and the more this time, the more you can't be angry. Be bold, calm, sensible, and simply speak out about your pain and your thoughts for so many years.
Grandma went to find her second son-in-law and told him that she had been in pain for many years, and that the idea of suicide had appeared many times, and every time she saw her two daughters and decided to live strongly. "There is no happiness in my marriage, I am sad every day, so this marriage is for my own happiness, I have to leave, this is my lifelong desire and appeal. ”
Grandma got the support of the second son-in-law, and finally the owner, together with the grandmother and the grandmother's second son-in-law, got the household registration book, dragged the reluctant but self-aware grandfather, and went to the Civil Affairs Bureau to make an appointment for the divorce cooling-off period.
After the divorce, the grandmother was very happy, took a photo with the divorce certificate, and quickly gave *** to all the relatives.
On the owner's notes, there is a ** of grandma happily holding a divorce certificate, worried about infringement, I didn't put it in the article. This note has become popular from Xiaohongshu to Weibo, and it was also on the hot search yesterday, and everyone congratulated this woman on gaining spiritual freedom, and since then the mountains and seas have been wide. 
It is very picturesque that women (and perhaps men) from all walks of life and doing all kinds of things have stopped what they are doing to praise this brave woman. 
I can't help but praise it, my heart is full of magnificent love and respect for contemporary women. Some people may want to say, little sheep, you would rather demolish ten temples than destroy one marriage, why do you always encourage others to divorce? First of all, I don't encourage divorce. Veteran readers know thatBrother Yang never persuaded people to divorce. But if someone decides to divorce, I will definitely respect the blessing. I don't want marriage to be a shackle to put down on anyone. Whether you get married or divorced, it's just a choice, and like many choices we experience in our lives—it doesn't matter if it's right or wrong, and where you have peace of mind, you're going home. Secondly, I agree with Mr. Li Yinhe's point of viewBelieve that life is essentially a game, and that one should not spend one's life in torment. If you ignore your own wishes and stay in marriage for the sake of perfection, fulfillment, or submission to other people's opinions, then at least marriage is immoral for the woman (or man). In real life, the foot-clamping function of marriage is more obvious in women. Men have a variety of ways to escape the oppression of marriage, and their biological, moral, and cultural responsibilities are far less than women's. Married women, especially after childbirth, have superimposed responsibilities. I can't bear it, I don't need to endure it anymore, of course it's worth congratulating. You can't suffer alone, right? Thirdly, what moved and strengthened me a lot was not the divorce itself, but the sight of a woman who, at the age of 70, is still willing to bravely pursue the life she wants, which is probably more meaningful than whether the marriage is there, whether it is or not, or who is right and who is wrong. It is the fact that "women break through the prison of age" itself, which makes people sigh and cheer. Scientifically, time is fair for everyone, but sociologically, women's sense of time urgency is generally much stronger than men's. And men are also happy to make time into a shackle after mastering the right to speak, and mentally ** women. A man is 40 a flower, a woman is 40 tofu dregs", this common saying that has been passed down to this day is a code code, and it is a clear proof. Taiwanese genius and famous machismo Li Ao likes to talk about women. He said that every woman has three enemies, the first is time, the second is the man who does not chase her, and the third is the woman who is more beautiful than her. If the sisters still don't understand what it means to objectify women, take a look at Li Caizi's three standards, and you can basically understand one or two. A woman's worst enemy is time, and it is nothing more than to say that young girls have the world because they have the love of men and superior sexual prowess, fertility. As they grow old, their capital depreciates rapidly. In the eyes of men, "old women" over 50 years old have nothing and can only tolerate men and take care of men to obtain the only little living space. This is the world that traditional men want to maintain. They don't understand Su Min, who fled, and they don't understand the 70-year-old divorced grandmother; They constantly create age anxiety, shackle women's horizons, and form female competition. After squeezing the reproductive value of young women, the value of housework for older women is squeezed out in order to maintain a superficially harmonious married life. Just make women fear time, you can make them fear everything. The first step of women's awakening is the awakening of time and the rebellion against age. When women no longer live for procreation and for the pleasure of men, time ceases to be women's enemies, but their friends. This seemingly simple road of emancipation has been walked by women for one or two hundred years. Li Ao hated and loved his ex-wife Hu Yinmeng who couldn't let go, and when Hu Yinmeng was 50 years old, he asked someone to send 50 roses, openly declaring that this move was to remind his ex-wife that no matter how beautiful you are, you are already 50 years old. It's a pity that this "humiliation" can't hurt his beautiful ex-wife. In the last days of his life, Li Caizi wanted to see Hu Meiren, but Hu coldly refused. Hu Yinmeng, who was already untroubled, said in a speech:"Inner strength is what a woman needs to develop the most, and then there is creativity. I want to be like a man in this world, with a real calling and creative direction in life. ”The real calling and creative direction in a woman's life is not to become a wife or mother, but to become herself. As long as a person becomes himself, he is no longer afraid of age. Because essentially, we can create personal life and happiness at every age. A woman's fear of age is essentially a fear of losing emotional attraction and emotional attachment. As long as this is overcome, everyone can be like a 70-year-old grandmother. Yesterday, I also saw a small ** from Teacher She of the Outer Chinese College of Zhejiang University City College. 
Teacher She went to the countryside to farm at the age of 18, was admitted to university at the age of 28, and went abroad alone at the age of 42 to study for a doctorate. Two minutes of **, but Teacher She used it for 33 years. Teacher She, who is more than a year old, said that when he went to the countryside to farm, he was the most painful, because he didn't know that he would be in ** tomorrow and couldn't see hope. Later, when she went out of the countryside and into the world through the entrance examination, her advice to women was to "go out and see more so that you don't feel wronged". Vision determines how we see the world, and it also determines how we think about age. In recent years, there is a popular saying in Europe and the United States:Old and young. As long as a person remains curious about the world, he dares to start over at any age, when he is young, you are a young man, and as he gets older, he is an old young man. A woman is young all her life, not a three-piece divorce set of medical beauty and fitness, the above is just one or several links to keep young. Being young begins with finding one's own purpose in life and overcoming the fear of loss. As we get older, when the constraints of responsibility become smaller and smaller, we start to find ourselves again, and look for a new life, maybe the time is just right.