A time for families to be reunited. But it's a pity that the happy time is short-lived, and most of the festival has passed in a blink of an eye. Many people are packing their bags and getting ready to go back to work. But no matter whatWe all need to keep in mind that there are three things not to say, and there are three things not to drink.
There are three things not to say.
No gossip.
Although the Spring Festival is a day for family and friends to reunite, in the face of so many relatives and friends, many people will unconsciously open the conversation folder and always have a lot of endless words. They will even deliberately say some gossip about others to satisfy their own chat needs. But in fact, there is no need to say this kind of gossip, if you blindly spread other people's gossip, you may also cause some trouble for yourself, after all, there is no impermeable wall in the world, no matter how it will always reach the ears of others.
Don't talk big.
When I get together with friends, I often meet some people who like to talk big, they never take others seriously, but blindly brag about how much money they have made and how much business they have negotiated. But in fact, such a person is just deliberately showing himself, and he hopes to improve his image in the eyes of others. But what he didn't know was that the more this happened, the easier it was to annoy people, after all, everyone would be jealous and didn't want to see others better off than themselves.
No complaints.
Although there are many difficulties in life, we still have to have positive courage when facing life, and many people will see friends who have been reunited for a long time during the Chinese New Year unconsciously confide in their bitterness. But in fact, this approach is also easy to arouse the disgust of others, after all, blindly resentful, not only will not make life better, but also consume their enthusiasm for life, affecting the lively atmosphere of the New Year.
There are three types of wine that you don't drink.
Don't get drunk.
Whenever there is a temporary dinner and drinking during the Chinese New Year, we can wipe out all the fatigue and helplessness between pushing the glass and changing the lamp, and even the mood will reach a climax. But drinking is just to regulate emotions, we still have to control it well, we can't just drink blindly, if you get drunk, it will also bring some trouble to people.
Don't drink nameless alcohol.
When it comes to the Chinese New Year, many people will find that there are always some drinks around them that cannot be pushed off, whether it is friends who have not been in touch for many years or relatives who have little contact, they will invite you to their homes to gather and drink some wine during the festival. Some people still come to the scene for the sake of face, but what they don't know is that these people don't really want to invite you to drink but have something to ask for, like this nameless wine without drinking.
Do not drink alcohol.
When friends and family get together, they will inevitably drink, and drinking can also bring each other closer. But there are often people at the wine table who are desperately trying to persuade others to drink, even though they have not drunk much. Some people with a thin face are also embarrassed to refuse, and they will drink one by one in the face of others' persuasion. In fact, in the end, such an approach will only harm your physical health, and even be dragged down by it. Therefore, if you can not drink alcohol like this, try not to drink it, and you don't need to be afraid of offending people, and you can refuse it boldly.