Why is it that it is generally a woman who files for divorce? In fact, the main reason is that in today's society, women don't have to worry about not being able to get married at all. It doesn't matter if the woman is married first, second, or even third, fourth!
A university professor once revealed a set of data. According to the data, excluding some issues of principle, the majority of divorce initiators are women, accounting for an astonishing 74%. It's jaw-dropping!
Therefore, in this society, women nowadays do not worry about getting married at all, and even if they are divorced, they can easily remarry. Even in the case of remarriage, he can bring himself a considerable income.It is precisely because of these sad realities that some women no longer understand the preciousness of marriage. It even feels like divorce is a proud, casual thing!
I believe many netizens have swiped it on the Internet. Girlfriends celebrate divorced friends, and all kinds of women post divorce certificates on the Internet. It is precisely because of the fact that there are people who are proud of their divorce certificates in reality and on the Internet, so that many women have subtly changed their inner view of marriage.
I can't figure it out, divorce ten or twenty years ago is a particularly unspeakable thing, a very shameful thing.
Unexpectedly, after 20 years, divorce has become a matter of pride, a thing that many women yearn for. When this deformed concept reaches a certain level, a consensus is reached. There can be no more quarrels between the two people, let alone a bad mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationship. This will accelerate the idea of divorce in the minds of women who want to leave the family, because these women have a very weak concept of marriage.
It is impossible for anyone's marriage to be absolutely happy, because there will always be various difficulties and challenges in life! Many couples even after three, five, or even ten years, eight years. There will still be various problems.In fact, no matter how bad a marriage is, it will not change because you change someone. Your marriage is not good, and it can't be the fault of the other party alone. Even if you change someone, if you don't make the change, your marriage is destined to be the same result as the previous one. Therefore, as long as there are no principled problems such as domestic violence, cheating, and gambling. As long as it doesn't make you see no hope in your marriage and there is really no way back, don't divorce easily. Because even if you remarry, when you are faced with firewood, rice, oil and salt, there will be all kinds of problems.
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