The 1.4 billion people in our society are basically divided into 3 categories:Clever people, bad people, and stupid people.
Wise people are very few, that is, enlightened people according to Buddhism, they have long been aware of the laws of social operation, not in the five elements, the wind is light, and they enjoy the worship of the other two kinds of people.
There are most bad people, there are pure evildoers, there are hypocrites, and more villains who look honest but have bad hearts. The principle of their life is to take advantage, be superior, bully others, and step on others to climb up.
Stupid people are also the majority, they are those who are purely honest, and there are people who are a little literate, but rigid and dogmatic. Their life principle is to be pure good people, suffering losses are blessings, but they keep complaining, full of resentment.
Smart people are difficult for ordinary people to come into contact with, and even if they do, they will not intersect, stupid people are harmless, and the most harmful ones are those bad people.
We deal with these bad people all the time in life, and how to deal with these bad people is actually a compulsory course in life.
The first is to discern who is badPeople who are full of benevolence and morality, people who are extremely selfish, people who have a bad attitude towards ordinary people, people who are never reasonable, people who are cheating and cheating, and people who are always PUA are basically bad people.
Again, how to deal with bad guys, the most important thing to deal with these bad guys is not to have any intersection with them, to ignore them emotionally, never trust them, and keep a certain distance from them from beginning to end, so that they don't know where to start.
If you have to deal with it, it's always about sticking to your bottom line and principles, and at the same time being flexible and tactful. Whatever they say is your answer is good, okay, no problem, but they just don't do anything and don't respond. Or you can kill, the words are all nice words, hold the other person high, and watch the other person splendid until it rots.
Bad people, when you don't have absolute strength, don't offend easily, because they are all people who will be revenged, ** very big.
Then there is yourself, never position yourself as a good bully and a very weak person, so it is easy to recruit bad people, because they always pick soft persimmons and pinch them in order to take the biggest advantage.
There is also the need for a strict mouthDon't reveal any information about yourself, always maintain a sense of mystery, people can't figure it out, bad people can't figure it out about you, he can't do it.
Don't be overflowing with kindness, bad people never get better, don't be sympathetic, don't be pitiful, because most of the results are the end of the farmer and the snakeThe bad guy is never grateful, and even if he has experienced similar suffering, they do it by crawling out of the pit themselves, then pushing you down and laughing at you on the side.
Finally,If you are cheated and bullied by bad people, the easiest and most effective way is to tear your face on the spot, hit back, and let the other party know that it hurts. Because the bad guy bullied you once, and you put up with it, there will be a time when you make him hurt, and the next time it will be gone. Don't be afraid of offending people, don't be afraid of losing face, and do things that repay grievances with virtue, so how can you repay virtue?