At every stage of our lives, we inevitably run into bullies. Either a direct attack on the body or an invisible injury to words. If you can't do it, how can you protect yourself?
Since you are "untied", you should exercise your "abdominal muscles" first, and when you are strong, it will be relatively safe. As long as you don't take the initiative to cause trouble, the chance of being bullied is relatively small. Do you think people are going to be old anyway, what should they do when they get old?You can't stop exercising just because you're getting older. Just as people are always going to die, you can't stop enjoying life just because you're going to die anyway, now train your body to be great, and wait until the day you get old. And relatively speaking, people of the same age who insist on exercising will always live longer than those who do not exercise.
Secondly, understand a little psychology to prevent low-level mistakes similar to "Stockholm syndrome", many people always have illusions about bullies, thinking that they will give in, thinking that there will be good fruits to eat if they endure humiliation, which is actually to consider the problem from their own point of view. If the other party wants to bully you, he must have already thought of the idea of "making yourself comfortable in one go". He doesn't feel like he's bullying you, and he won't give up his vested interests easily, even if it's just a glimmer of pleasure. Robbers also have the concept of "robbing is also a way, robbing the rich and helping the poor", so having illusions about bullies is tantamount to self-destruction.
You must know that the police are powerful for self-protection no matter what age**. Don't have the idea that the other party has a higher status than me, knows more people than me, and it is useless to retaliate afterwards and call the police. The people's police themselves serve the people, and your situation is already so bad, how bad can it be?If you encounter bullying, call the police first.
To understand the law, many people who have been subjected to domestic violence do not even know the basic laws for self-protection, and feel that they have to rely on themselves for everything;endured all the way, but as a result, he pushed himself into a desperate situation. The law is everyone's, you have to know how to pick it up, but you are legally illiterate, you don't know the laws and regulations at all, so you can't use it.
The last thing is to eliminate the misconception, for example, "take a step back and open the sky", every sentence has a applicable situation, and you have no way to retreat now, and you have to retreat.
For the powerless chicken, it is necessary to combine these forces to protect yourself and the people you love.
Defend yourself bravely in the face of bullying