There is a "magical" character in our family - my brother and daughter-in-law. She always intrudes into our lives in a magical way, silently, and then in a magical way, making us feel extremely embarrassed and helpless. She's like the bull who always breaks into the china shop, rampage all the way and mess up our lives.
No, the Spring Festival has just passed, and the smell of the New Year in our family has not yet dissipated, and the enthusiasm of my brother and daughter-in-law has begun to burn. She called with great interest and enthusiastically suggested that I prepare some gifts according to her idea and visit my uncle's house. Her words were filled with anticipation and enthusiasm, as if I had been her right-hand man and everything was under her control.
But, dear brother and daughter-in-law, have you ever thought that I also have my own ideas and plans? I don't want to prepare gifts according to your ideas, and I don't want to be held back by your enthusiasm. I want to live my life on my own terms and experience the beauty of this world. However, in the face of your enthusiasm, I can't say what I think, so I can only accept it reluctantly.
So, I prepared a gift according to her idea and went to my uncle's house. However, my heart was full of dissatisfaction and helplessness. I felt like a clown who was being led by the nose, completely losing his direction and dignity. This feeling made me very angry, and it also made me feel extremely disgusted by my brother-in-law's behavior.
What surprised me even more was that my brother and daughter-in-law actually planned to foster her junior high school children in the city at my aunt's house. She didn't seem to realize at all how much trouble and inconvenience such behavior would bring to her aunt's family. My aunt has her own life, her own children and husband, how can they take care of a foreign child wholeheartedly? Such an approach will not only destroy the harmonious atmosphere of the aunt's family, but also make the child feel lonely and helpless.
In the face of my brother-in-law's behavior, I really felt very helpless and angry. She seems to have no sense of boundaries at all, and always interferes with other people's lives with her own thoughts and wishes. She may feel that her actions are well-intentioned, but in fact they are causing a lot of distress and inconvenience to others.
I really hope that my brother and daughter-in-law will be aware of their own behavior problems and learn to respect the lives and wishes of others. We are all individuals who have the right to choose our own way of life and determine our own destiny. Please don't always make decisions for others and interfere with other people's lives. Let's all learn to respect and understand each other, and work together to create a harmonious and beautiful family atmosphere!