Hi, everyone, I'm Xiaohua Hua, a post-85 mother who is working full-time as a self-a**.
Today is the 95th day of my full-time self-**, and the frequency of my updates has been a bit low recently, the main reason is actually the content of the previous update of dry goods, and the update is a little updated, and another reason is that the recent month has caught up with the New Year, the data is not good, and I have not received positive feedback, and there is no motivation to update.
I've been reading books for the past two days, and I finished reading "Cognitive Awakening" some time ago, so I wrote an article "After reading "Cognitive Awakening", I summarized 12 essences", and last night I finished reading "The Lychee of Chang'an" These two days I quickly output the article, and then I started to read "It's Orange, Yellow, Orange and Green".
In fact, to be honest, after more than 3 months of self-a**, I used to really want to give up, including the recent bad data and I was also thinking about whether to give up, but if I think about it carefully, I always want to give up every time I encounter some difficulties, as if I have never insisted on one thing for a long time.
Therefore, I decided to continue to persevere, and look forward to achieving a different me next year.
In the past, some friends often asked me that I also want to be self-a**, but I don't know if I am suitable? So in today's article, I will talk about what kind of people are suitable for self-a**, you can compare it yourself to see if you are suitable for this road.
1. Are you a person who has a desire to share?
The so-called desire to share is a strong desire to share the bits, feelings, thoughts and experiences of one's life with others.
Try to think about whether you are such a person and whether you would like to share it with others in your daily life. If yes, then you must be suitable to do self-a**.
Because doing self-leading means that you need to continue to share and express in order to have the ability to continue to produce content.
2. Are you a person who can persevere for a long time?
In fact, it's not just about doing it, everything actually needs to be insisted on, persistence actually sounds very simple, but it's really difficult to do.
For example, when it comes to waking up early, every time I swear that I have to get up early, but in fact, I can stick to it for a day or two, and I will return to my original shape immediately.
The Internet always gives us the illusion that when we see people earning more than 10,000 yuan a month, we always feel that people can easily succeed, so we blame our failure on bad luck.
In fact, every successful person has to go through countless days and nights of perseverance and hard work.
Tens of millions of bloggers Wang Qiye actually persisted for several years before he really became popular. Since 2018, five or six accounts have been abolished, and I have tried beauty, dancing, and beauty all failed.
It wasn't until 2021 that he began to transform into a funny blogger, and in 2023, he began to become popular on the whole network and became a blogger with tens of millions of fans.
You see, no one can succeed casually. 3. Are you willing to continue learning?
Do from ** must be a long-term output, but long-term output, you must continue to input, if there is no input, then your content is bound to be narrower and narrower, and finally lead to your own abandonment.
So you need to have the ability to keep learning. Nowadays, with the development of the Internet, there are actually many ways to input, such as reading content written by others, such as listening to blogs online, listening to books, reading books, watching movies, ......Both. As long as you can keep typing and learning, the more you write, the more you feel. Fourth, whether you can accept a period of no positive feedback
It takes a period of time to start up, so you have to endure loneliness in the early stage, and be prepared that no one will see the article you write in the early stage.
How many people are stuck in the early stage of no positive feedback, and they can't hold on and give up.
But what I want to tell you is that in fact, no matter what we do, there are no flowers and applause in the early stage, and we must endure loneliness before we can see the rainbow.
Actor Zhang Songwen, before he became famous as Gao Qiqiang, also insisted on doing group performances and supporting roles, and honed for many years before waiting for "Hurricane" that made him popular.