The best thing in the world is that the person you like also likes you; The most rare thing is that you are in love with each other; The most valuable thing is to think about each other for a long time.
In this era of mobile phones, if you find that someone is always at a distance from you, you may feel that this is a kind of reserve or shyness.
But the truth is often that in his heart, you are not the person who deserves to be remembered and actively contacted.
Because, the people who really care about you will definitely take the initiative to contact you.
1. Take the initiative to contact and show that you have never forgotten
I don't know if you have such an experience:
One day, on a whim, I wanted to get together with an old friend who I hadn't been in touch with for a long time, so I searched through the phone address book, only to find that some names had become unfamiliar;
Or you want to share an important moment with someone, and you look through the WeChat friend list, only to find that some people haven't chatted for a long time.
Those who don't contact you for a long time may not be because they're too busy, but because you're not the person in their lives who needs to be remembered from time to time.
And those who really care about you, even if they are busy, will find time to reach out to you.
Because they know that true friendship and love cannot stand the wear and tear of time.
It's not so much that they're reaching out to you, it's that they're telling you in their own way: you've never been forgotten in their minds.
Second, take the initiative to contact, indicating that there are still feelings
The relationship between people is delicate.
Sometimes, our relationships with certain people become distant because of time and distance; And sometimes, even if we haven't been in touch for a long time, when we get in touch with someone again, we will find that we still have that deep friendship with each other.
And those who take the initiative to contact you are the same people who value their feelings with you and are willing to challenge themselves in the face of time and space.
They may not have something to tell you about every contact, but every chat and greeting is a reflection of their affection for you.
In this way, they want to tell you that even if there are new changes and encounters in their own lives, their friendship with you remains the same.
3. Cherish those who take the initiative to contact you
In this world, no one is obligated to be nice to you, not even relatives, friends, and lovers.
Those who are willing to take the initiative to contact you are people who are genuinely good to you. They don't want you in return, they just want you well.
Such people deserve to be cherished with our hearts. Because not everyone will be there when you need it, and not everyone will lend a helping hand when you are in trouble.
But those who reach out to you are telling you with their actions that they will be there for you whenever and wherever you are.
Some people may say, "The reason why he didn't reach out to me was because he had more important things to do." ”
But have you ever thought about how important your place in a person's heart is if he is really busy, but he is still willing to take the time to reach out to you?
And for those of you who don't contact you for a long time under the pretext of being busy, maybe it's time for you to re-examine your relationship.
Summary:
In this age of information, everyone is a passerby in each other's lives.
And those who are willing to take the initiative to contact you are the same people who are willing to accompany you on a longer journey.
So, cherish those who reach out to you! Because in this complicated world, their existence is the best blessing to you.