1. In the face of failure, don't give up easily, otherwise you will be looked down upon.
In life, we always encounter all kinds of setbacks and failures, I remember one time, I participated in a basketball game at school, and because of a mistake, our team lost the game.
I was very disappointed and even blamed myself, but then I realized that the real failure was not to be defeated, but to give up.
After that game, I trained harder, not only to improve my basketball skills, but also to strengthen my courage to face setbacks.
Looking back now, that failure was a treasure in my life. So, when you encounter failure, don't give up easily, but be brave enough to stand up and move on. Only in this way can we win the respect and admiration of others.
2. Kindness and friendliness do not necessarily reciprocate.
I used to be kind and friendly to everyone, and I was always willing to help others, thinking that by doing so, I would earn their friendship and respect.
However, reality has given me a resounding slap in the face, and some people take advantage of my kindness and friendliness, take advantage of me, and even treat me coldly.
I realized that kindness and friendliness don't necessarily pay dividends. But that doesn't mean I'm going to change my nature.
It's just that I need to be more sensibly about who I associate with instead of blindly being nice to everyone. After all, true friends are those who are able to support you in times of need.
3. Don't let those who often take advantage of you affect your mood and life.
In life, we will always meet some people who like to take advantage of others, they may often borrow things from you and never return them, or often speak ill of you behind your back.
In the beginning, I always felt angry and annoyed about it, and it even affected my mood and life. But then I realized that it wasn't worth tangling with these people.
Why should I let their actions affect my mood and my life? So, I began to learn to let go and stop worrying about these little things.
If I really can't avoid contact with them, I try to keep my distance and don't let them get close to me easily. In this way, my life has become much easier and more comfortable.
So, don't let those who often take advantage of you affect your mood and life, learn to let go and keep your distance.
4. Saying more good things behind your back, whether it can be conveyed or not, is a positive attitude.
In interpersonal communication, we must not only learn to listen to others' opinions and suggestions, but also learn to praise and encourage others.
Praise and encouragement not only make people feel happy and confident, but also bring people closer together.
So, saying more good things behind your back is a positive attitude. Even if these kind words cannot be directly conveyed to the other person's ears, they can still convey a positive message.
When I know a colleague is doing a good job in something, I praise him behind my back. Although I don't know if these words will reach the ears of the other person, my attitude is positive.
This positive energy not only makes me feel happy, but also transmits positive energy and good mood to others.
5. When talking to strangers, you need to be vigilant and cautious.
We should be vigilant and cautious when talking to strangers, which is not to say that we are hostile and distrustful of all people, but to have a certain sense of self-preservation.
After all, we can't understand the background and intentions of a stranger, and being too honest and trusting others can cause unnecessary trouble or harm to ourselves.
For example, try not to reveal too much personal information when chatting with strangers in public; Be careful to protect your privacy when chatting online.
If you are accosted by a stranger, stay calm and leave as soon as possible, etc. In short, when talking to strangers, we should have a sense of self-protection, do not trust others, and have a certain degree of vigilance and caution to ensure that our own safety and interests are not harmed.