Song Jia was born in Qingdao in 1962, originally from a wealthy family, his father was quite successful in business, and the family lived a wealthy life. However, the good times did not last long, and when he was 5 years old, his father's career suffered a setback and the family fell into decline. Not long after, her father died of illness, and Song Jia and her mother suddenly became widows and orphans. 
In those days, families without men were often discriminated against and disliked. Song Jia and her mother are no exception, coupled with the hat of "capitalist", life is very difficult. Orphans and widows, pulling 5 children alone, this is undoubtedly a huge challenge for Song's mother. However, instead of being discouraged and complaining, Song's mother tried to pour all her heart and soul into the children's education. Even if life was difficult, Song's mother insisted on sending Song Jia to university to study acting. 19-year-old Song Jia got her wish and entered the ** Drama Academy and started her own acting career. During this period, she also hosted the Spring Festival Gala of the TV station and got some performance opportunities. 
Song Jia has experienced the loss of her father and the blow of fate since she was a child, but she has not been defeated by these, but has become stronger and more independent. Acting has become her motivation to strive for progress. Under the influence of her mother's unremitting self-improvement, Song Jia developed a positive personality. It is this attitude that has made her extraordinary achievements on the road of acting. In 1983, Song Jia was invited to host the memorial meeting of Zhang Xuejin's father. Zhang Xuejin is a Peking Opera performance artist, born into an artistic family, and his father is a Peking Opera master. The two gradually became familiar with each other during the rehearsal of the memorial meeting, and Xuejin began to take the initiative to ask Song Jia to eat and chat. Song Jia was still very young at that time, and Zhang Xuejin did not dare to take a step in his pursuit, for fear that the age gap would become an obstacle. However, with the encouragement of his father and friends, Zhang Xuejin mustered up the courage to confess his heart to Song Jia. 
Song Jia also asked her mother's opinion, and after receiving her mother's blessing, she gladly accepted Zhang Xuejin's pursuit. The wedding of the two was held at the commemoration of the 55th anniversary of Zhang Xuejin's father's artistic career, and they became husband and wife under the witness of 16 tables of Peking Opera. However, the age gap between Song Jia and Song Jia was 21 years old, and she had just become famous at the time, so many people talked about it, thinking that Song Jia was climbing the dragon and attaching the phoenix through Zhang Xuejin. There is no doubt that all kinds of criticism make Song Jia feel aggrieved, she just follows her sincerity and builds a family with the person she loves. The outside world's discussion hurt the young woman's fragile heart, and Song Jia fell into depression for a while. But soon, she got rid of the haze and firmly chose to live her own little life, not caring about other people's gossip. In 1988, Song Jia gave birth to a daughter for Zhang Xuejin, and the family of three lived a sweet and sweet life, and there was no quarrel with the world. 
In 1991, Zhang Xuejin was unfortunately infected with the hepatitis C virus after a blood transfusion, and his physical condition began to decline. In order to treat her husband's illness, Song Jia took him to Japan to seek medical treatment. In a foreign country, Song Jia struggled to learn the language and worked part-time to pay for sky-high medical bills. Every stitch is expensive, which makes Song Jia feel pressured. However, her lover was sick, and Song Jia did her best to take care of Zhang Xuejin's daily life. It's a pity that the erosion of the disease does not stop due to people's efforts, and Zhang Xuejin's condition continues to deteriorate and needs to be recuperated. And Song Jia also had to face a cruel fact - the virus may be transmitted to her young daughter. 
In order to protect their daughter's health, Song Jia and Zhang Xuejin chose to divorce and live separately after careful consideration. The moment she signed, Song Jia burst into tears. Separation is extremely difficult for both sides, but it seems to be the only way to avoid the spread of the virus. The outside world has been discussing this divorce and speculating about Song Jia's motives, which makes her already painful even worse. Song Jia finally chose to leave the entertainment industry for the time being and went to the United States to study the Internet, wanting to get away from all criticism and start again. In 2008, Zhang Xuejin was diagnosed with liver cancer and was in critical condition. In order to take care of the sick **, Zhang Limin chose to marry Zhang Xuejin and accompany him through the last days of his life. 
Four years later, in 2012, Zhang Xuejin did not survive the devastation of the disease and passed away. According to the will, Zhang Xuejin's only one property and 600,000 deposits were left to his daughter Zhang Chuchu. However, Zhang Chuchu did not appreciate it, she has always been very disgusted with Zhang Limin, who later married her father. The reason is that Zhang Limin concealed her marriage to her father from Zhang Chuchu, and Zhang Chuchu thought that it was out of ill intentions. The death of his father also became a knot in Zhang Chuchu's heart. She couldn't forgive herself for not being able to say goodbye to her father for the last time, which became her eternal regret. Although Zhang Limin silently accompanied Zhang Xuejin through his old age, he failed to win Zhang Chuchu's understanding. 
As a daughter, Zhang Chuchu has always been unable to identify with this latecomer. His father's illness is a demon that Zhang Chuchu can't get rid of in this life. She has never been able to calmly face all the unhappiness that has happened in this family. Both father and daughter have endured the trauma of this heart-wrenching illness that not only destroys their lives, but also changes the course of their lives. After Zhang Xuejin's death, Song Jia chose to start again and set her sights on her daughter and career. In order to promote her daughter's entry into the entertainment industry, Song Jia accompanied Zhang Chuchu on many talk shows, recalling the past story, hoping to win popularity for her daughter. However, Zhang Chuchu's acting career was not smooth, and Song Jia could only continue to match her and look for opportunities. 
When the dust settled, Song Jia finally had time to review her emotional journey. The failure of two marriages made her wonder if she would have a different choice if she had to do it all over again. When she was young, she got married because of love, and she was alone in middle age, and many encounters constituted her dramatic life. In 2017, 55-year-old Song Jia met Stephen, a wealthy Belgian businessman, and the two had similar interests, and Song Jia entered the marriage hall again. After experiencing the peaks and turns of life, Song Jia learned to look forward and cherish the people in front of her. Adversity has not destroyed her enthusiasm for love and life, and Song Jia is still able to face each day positively. 
Whether the word "ruthless" is suitable to describe Song Jia is full of controversy. She gave for her loved ones and went to other places; In order to protect her family, she endured criticism alone. In the eyes of many, she was a selfish woman; But in her heart, her family and her lover are all she has. After experiencing ups and downs, Song Jia still loves life, and this optimistic and positive spirit is worth learning from everyone.