The definition of a high-quality woman in the county: decent work, high social status, middle and upper appearance, and high income.
Specific groups: female teachers in urban public schools, civil servants in county-level organs, and female doctors in county-level public hospitals (only county hospitals and traditional Chinese medicine hospitals).
Another label of high-quality women: the princess of the second generation of county officials and the rich second generation who stayed in the county to work.
They are all married.
What kind of people did the high-quality women in the small town marry?
Some of the high-quality women in the system are married to men who are regular civil servants in the system. Interestingly, most of them are married to low-level working men.
Many of the princesses are not the right people, and many choose ordinary men from commoners and even rural families.
This fully shows that there is no black and white separation between the classes in the county, and there is no insurmountable gap.
However, in many cities, the class barriers have developed to the point that they are insurmountable, and different classes never intermarry with each other. As if the Indian caste system is a deformation?
Why? Many of the high-quality women in the county were born in rural areas, and the rest of their parents were also from rural areas.
A high-quality woman who is not married, has no spouse, and has not started a family must have countless distresses, loneliness and hardships behind the glamour on the surface.
How to solve sexual desires, who to confide in your worries and sorrows, who will bear part of the pressure of life, etc.
A small county town, showing the social form of acquaintances, ordinary people talk about the shortcomings of parents, especially for older unmarried women full of peachy news imagination, saliva stars can drown the ladies--- look down and see the acquaintances in the network, ** pressure is also a practical trouble that needs to be taken seriously.
The marriage of a female college is a kind of inheritance of traditional Chinese culture for thousands of years, which is more prominent and significant in the rural cultural atmosphere.
The accumulation of local culture and the dripping water have cultivated high-quality women, and a background color is that they have to marry themselves when they reach the age, generally under the age of 32.
The pace of life and work in the county is slow, especially the female and rich second generation of the system, everything is according to the step-by-step, slow, and have enough time to take care of their own marriage.
Improvisation is also a characteristic of high-quality female marriages in the county.
The high-quality women in the system themselves also belong to the ordinary class and the salarymen, and the class consciousness is not very strong; At the same time, many girls in public office come from the grassroots class, their parents are grassroots, and the snobbery in human nature is not very deep, and they can also accept the situation that men are inferior to women.
The county seat is a vulgar society full of market fireworks, where there is no infatuated waiting for the holiness of future love, and there is no silent evasion of marriage, and it is full of a more practical and realistic pursuit of marriage.