Chinese characters are vast and profound, and the meaning of the same character varies due to different pronunciations. Sometimes the meaning of the same sentence will change due to different tones. For example, an interrogative sentence conveys confusion, while an exclamation sentence may imply dissatisfaction. Different tones express different emotions. When we talk to others, we need to be smart people who can be aware of what they are saying in order to avoid awkward situations. Today, I would like to tell you that when visiting others, once you hear the following "three sentences", you should leave at the right time to save each other's face. Let's take a look at what three sentences are there!
The first sentence: "You have eaten before you go".
When we go to someone's house, we may accidentally talk for a long time and get close to the meal. At this time, the proprietor will say, "You can eat before leaving". When we hear this, don't hesitate to leave right away. People who really want to keep you for dinner will not use this kind of soliciting tone, especially if it is almost time to eat. Under normal circumstances, if we want to keep others for dinner, we will not ask for it, but will directly and generously keep others and let others have a common meal together. Even before the meal arrived, some meals were prepared in advance, and others were strongly urged to stay and eat. And this seemingly retaining but polite tone: "You have eaten and then left", it is obvious that it is not really to keep you to eat. Therefore, when we hear someone say this, we should understand what he means and leave at the right time, so as not to embarrass each other.
Second sentence: I'll go out to do some errands, you wait for me at my house for a while, and when I come back, we'll talk again.
There may be times when we go to visit others, and we happen to meet others who are busy with something; Or on the way to someone else's house, the other party suddenly encounters something and needs to deal with it. At this time, the host family will often say: I go out to do something, you wait for me in my house for a while, and when I come back, we will continue to talk. Maybe many friends think that this is normal, after all, everyone is busy and has a bunch of things to deal with. But at this point, we'd better leave. Although others did not issue an eviction order, we must be aware that since others claim to be going out, it is not appropriate for us to continue to stay in other people's homes, and he also tactfully reminded us that he has something to deal with, no matter how enthusiastic and natural he said, we should all understand each other's intentions and leave gracefully, so that the other party will appreciate our understanding and cooperation.
The third sentence: "I have a ready-made one at home, and you will eat some."
When you go to someone's house and have a meal, if you hear someone say, "I have something ready at home, you will eat it." At this time, we need to learn to recognize the meaning of others. From this sentence, we can know that the host family does not want to keep you to eat with you, nor does he want to go to the trouble of preparing more meals for you. At this time, we should leave with interest. Because people who really want to treat you will not say that, even if they don't have time to buy groceries, they will do their best to prepare the food according to your preferences, instead of you will eat ready-made. If I want to keep you for dinner, I won't let you settle, and I don't want to keep you, so I don't want to worry about it! Therefore, once you hear this, you should leave with interest and do not cause trouble to your master. If today's article is helpful to you, then click a follow, a like, and thank you for your support.