Daughters are the treasures of their parents, and they are cared for by their parents when they grow up, and their parents want them to be happy. When their daughter gets married, the parents have mixed feelings: they are happy and reluctant, they are both expectant and worried. Just like Meng's mother moved three times, although modern parents do not relocate, their daughters will still be full of worries and emotions when they get married. 
Add**Notes, no more than 140 words (optional) First, the daughter is about to get married, and she can't help but be sad while being happy to raise children and prevent old age, and children are the hope of parents in their old age. The daughter has finally found her ideal home, and her parents have completed this important task in life, so they are naturally relieved. But the daughter is away from home and can never return to the innocent appearance of the past, and the parents feel that the years are unforgiving, and the daughter has grown up. Lin Qingxuan's words expressed the parents' hearts: "When the daughter married a wife, the parents were shocked to realize that the daughter had quietly grown up, and the little bird would eventually leave the nest and fly high. "My daughter has been cared for by her parents since she was a child, and her immature little hands are held in the generous palms of her parents. In a blink of an eye, she has grown up ** and is about to live in another family. Thinking of this, parents couldn't help but sigh, not only relieved that their daughter had grown up, but also saddened by the sadness of their daughter leaving home. Whenever they attend their best friend's wedding and see the happy smile on the couple's face, parents will imagine that they will marry their daughter in such a happy mood in a few years. The parents were thrilled to think that on this day in the future, their daughter would also wear a white wedding dress and march towards a new life. But when this day really comes, watching their daughter marry another woman, the parents will faintly feel stunned and sad, because this marks that the daughter has grown up and is no longer the innocent girl who got along day and night. Second, the daughter is going to another home and is worried about her future life
Add a ** note, no more than 140 words (optional) The daughter is getting married, which means that she is going to live in a strange family. Parents are naturally worried about whether their daughter's life will be comfortable and whether she will be able to adapt smoothly to the new environment. The environment in which my daughter has lived since she was a child was created by her parents, she doesn't worry about much, and her life is relatively regular. When you arrive at your new home, everything has to start all over again: a new way of life, a new way of getting along, a whole new thing. Whether the daughter can adapt to the new living environment and get along with the new family has become a concern for parents. What worries parents even more is the situation of their son-in-law's family. Whether the son-in-law's parents are kind, whether they love their daughter-in-law's siblings, whether their daughter will be wronged, etc., all make parents sweat. Parents can't fully understand the real situation of their son-in-law's family just by a few faces, and they can't control their daughter's future, so they are even more worried. After the daughter gets married, she can't control her own living situation, which is a normal parental psychology. Only by understanding the situation of the son-in-law's family in advance and communicating with the son-in-law can we eliminate the worries as much as possible. Give your daughter more confidence that she is capable of handling various situations, so that she can let go of her worries. 3. The daughter has her own home, and the daughter is gradually distancing herself from her parents, and the daughter has her own home, and the contact with her parents is bound to decrease. The most reluctant thing for parents is that the relationship with their daughter will be indifferent. When my daughter first got married, she would often go home to visit, but as time went by, the focus of her life shifted, and she went home less often. The daughter has her own family and career, and the way she communicates with her parents has changed from face-to-face to **, from frequent phone calls to just sending messages and greetings. The son-in-law's family wants to stay for the New Year, and the daughter can't go home for reunion; When a daughter is sick, she will not tell her parents as soon as possible. For a while, the parents had a feeling of abandonment, worried that their daughter would drift away. In fact, this is also the only way for my daughter to grow up. Parents need to learn to let go and trust that their daughters will still love themselves. While keeping in touch, it also gives my daughter room to start a family. Take advantage of holidays to meet more often, send ** greetings to your daughter's home, and let your daughter feel the meticulous care of her parents, and the relationship will not be indifferent. Fourth, whether the son-in-law will treat his daughter well has also become a concern for parents. The hope of the parents is that the daughter can find someone who is good to her, but the real daughter is getting married, and the parents still can't help but worry about whether the son-in-law can treat the daughter well. The son-in-law seems to be a good candidate, and the parents are basically reassured. But after passing the door, the two get along for a long time, will the son-in-law maintain the initial goodwill? This makes parents can't help but worry. In fact, parents' concerns are not unreasonable. In real life, there are many examples of sons-in-law who are inconsistent with each other. When she first got married, she took good care of her daughter, but later changed her face and didn't recognize people in the trivial matters of life. At this time, the daughter couldn't go home, so she could only bear it by herself, and her parents couldn't do anything if they wanted to help, which was even more distressing. Only observe the son-in-law's personality more before the daughter gets married, and communicate more; After getting married, you should always care about your daughter's life and understand your son-in-law's personality. If there is really any problem, remind your daughter in time to avoid the problem from worsening, so as to avoid the parents' worries as much as possible. Fifth, after the daughter got married, her life was even more uncontrollable
Add ** note, no more than 140 words (optional) It is normal for parents to regularly greet their daughters about their lives, but after their daughters get married, their own lives are no longer influenced and controlled by their parents, which has also become a concern for parents. When the daughter is young, her parents can keep abreast of her study and life, but when she grows up, there are many gaps in her life and rest that parents don't know. Whether the daughter is doing well or eating well, parents can't fully grasp it. When a daughter is sick, she may not tell her parents as soon as she is sick, and she bears it herself; When the work pressure is high, I will not ask my parents for help. Parents are worried that their daughter will have problems and carry them by themselves, but they can't do anything about it. In fact, parents' worries are also meaningless. Adults have the ability to solve problems on their own, and so do daughters. When you encounter major events in your daily life, you will inform your parents as soon as possible, and there is a good chance for your parents to worry. Parents also need to learn to let go and trust their daughters to cope with their own lives. 6. Daughters will deviate from their parents' vision of lifeEvery parent has more or less a vision of their children's life and hopes that they will become the ideal person in their minds. When children want to live independently and face choices, parents can only bless, and it is difficult to completely follow their own ideas. The daughter's choice to marry a person whose parents are not very optimistic has made it difficult for parents to accept, and what worries parents even more is that their daughter will become what they do not want to see. The son-in-law's style of life, will the daughter also be assimilated? Will the son-in-law's way of dealing with people and things be invisibly affected by the daughter? All of this worries parents. In fact, parents should also understand that their daughters are independent individuals and have their own ideas. Adults have their own way of life, and parents are to respect it. Secondly, the daughter also has the ability to distinguish right from wrong and will not be easily changed by anyone. Just believe in your daughter, support your daughter, and don't make the worst guesses. The daughter will eventually marry a wife, this is a major life event, and parents will be worried. But give my daughter more trust and support, and believe that she is fully capable of facing it and shaping her own life. As a parent, the most important thing is to let go of your worries and wish your daughter happiness wholeheartedly.