Tolerance and forbearance have always been considered a virtue, but if there is no bottom line and principles, blindly forgiving and forbearance may lead us into passivity, and even overdraw our goodness.
Some people will take advantage of our tolerance and forbearance to hurt us again and again. In such a situation, blindly tolerating and forbearance is actually conniving at the wrong behavior of the other party, and it also undermines our own principles and bottom line. If we give in too much, others may think we are weak and deceitful. Therefore, we need to have our own principles and bottom lines, and we cannot be tolerant and tolerant without principles and bottom lines.
When we are tolerant and tolerant, we also need to express our feelings and attitudes, so that the other party understands our bottom line and principles, so as to restrain our own behavior.
At the same time, we also need to learn to protect ourselves from unnecessary harm. Sometimes, we can solve problems in other ways, such as asking for help, expressing our needs and feelings, sticking to our principles and bottom line, etc.
In short, blindly tolerant and tolerant is not the best choice, we need to have our own principles and bottom line, and while protecting ourselves, we must also respect the feelings and needs of others. In this way, you can make your kindness more valuable, and you can be more respected and recognized by others.