I have heard a saying: "The easiest thing in the world to get what you want is to ask for trouble." ”
In life, everyone will inevitably encounter a lot of helpless things, those uncertain and unacceptable endings, and then become a deep obsession, and finally become your lingering nightmare.
If every unsatisfactory thing is treated as a big thing, you will collapse sooner or later.
No one wants a miserable life, if you want your heart not to be tired, try to lighten the burden on your life.
Bodhi has no tree, and the mirror is not a platform. There was nothing in the first place, where to stir up dust. ”
There are a lot of imperfections in this world, and when you try to accept it and not blindly compete with yourself, you can break free from negative emotions and get out of the abyss of self-blame and despair.
The most important thing in life is to learn to give up, to break off the meaningless obsession in your heart, to give up the things that bother you, and to leave the people who make you suffer from internal friction.
In this life, people are losing and possessing at the same time, and they should not be too concerned about everything.
The best state of a person's life should be to subtract troubles and add to happiness.
Everyone will have troubles in their lives, however, after the heavy rain, the sky will still be clear, and only after walking through the mountains and rivers can we usher in the willows and flowers. It is gratifying to have your wishes come true, but it doesn't matter if they backfire, it's a big deal to start all over again, there is no threshold in this world that can't be overcome.
As the writer Ma De once said: "Those who live to the light wind are not free of troubles, but not obsessed with troubles." Because I have experienced a lot, I have to lift weights lightly. Because I understood it, I looked down on it. ”
Everything is open and bearish, and you are comfortable. A person, the more things he puts down, the richer his heart becomes.
Everyone's time and energy are limited, take care of the important people, do the important things well, and all that remains is to wait for a gust of wind to come, and let the unnecessary troubles go with the wind.
The flowers bloom and fall, although people are helpless, but in the spring, those familiar swallows will eventually return.
So, don't let the clouds of your worries obscure your eyes when you gaze at happiness.
I hope that in the future, in the new year, you will cut through the complicated and simplify, break free from the shackles of emotions, and have the life you want.