There is a category of students who tend to face failure in high school, which is the conclusion of years of experience and the summaries of educators. As long as the following bad habits are present, failure in high school is almost inevitable. For parents, don't leave anything to chance, once your child develops these bad habits, be sure to stop them in time.
1. Making too many friends in high school.
Some students are overzealous about making a lot of friends in high school. In social situations, making friends can be beneficial, but in high school, too many friends are not necessary. Throughout high school, in addition to being friends and teachers, there is also a layer of competition.
2. Overly aggressive personality.
Some students like to act as"Bar fine", disputants with unclear positions. No matter what you say, they always say no before expressing their opinion. This behavior is not only annoying, but also unbeneficial. Being too stubborn is an irresponsible behavior for both parents and teachers. Some people blame it on adolescence, but in reality there are only a very small number of students in a class who go through puberty, and there are always one or two who play the role"Bar fine"。This is actually a personality problem, I always feel that I am right, and I insist on going my own way. In class, even if the teacher has given the correct answer, they still insist on arguing, leaving the teacher speechless. In the liberal arts, this kind of thinking may be acceptable, but in the sciences, the answer is often unique, and students are expected to solve problems on their own, not against others. This behavior is annoying and annoying, so it needs to be taken seriously.
Third, deep in online games.
This is definitely a major mistake, if you are obsessed with mobile games, even if you think you are capable enough to get into Tsinghua University, after indulging in games, you may even be able to get a junior college. Many teachers have taught many students, but they have never seen an example of how well they played a game and achieved great results. Never believe in those so-called network incentives, such as successfully entering Tsinghua University with 400 points in the third year of high school, which is pure fiction.
The most common situation we see is that we are addicted to games and our grades fall again and again. No one has ever seen a sudden and significant increase in the scores of students with poor grades in the college entrance examination after they started playing games.
Fourth, fall in love.
For the situation of falling in love, it is really a headache. Students with excellent performance really rarely get involved in love. Believe the huge statistics, high school relationships are often immature and irresponsible. Don't ruin your future because of a momentary relationship. Among those students who can be admitted to Qingbei and 985, you will find that almost no one is also in love.
Once you start a relationship, you have to spend a lot of time for each other. If there is a large difference in grades, you may also need to tutor each other in their homework. This is a great waste of time, and the youth of high school is usually full of ignorance and feelings experienced for the first time. But compared to personal future, these emotional experiences can be moderately put down. If you don't have the ability to take care of your personal affairs right now, then this stage of your relationship may just be a waste of time with each other.
Parents should keep an eye on their children's condition and stop them if they notice any of the above signs.