In the classic TV series "Parents Love" ten years ago, there is a character whose marriage journey is unforgettable, and she is Ge Meixia. Ge Meixia had emotional entanglements with Lao Ding and Wang Zhenbiao, but in the end they failed to come together.
chewing and swallowing this drama slowly, I suddenly realized that what Ge Meixia really loved in her heart was actually an ethereal ideal image, and neither Lao Ding nor Wang Zhenbiao could really satisfy her.
Ge Meixia was born in a fisherman's family and is the daughter of a well-known local fisherman. At that time, this was a shackle that she could not get rid of for almost her life, and she suffered from cold eyes and discrimination.
For Ge Meixia, ordinary rural life is a heavy shackle, and she longs to break free from her origins, change her fate, and live a decent life. When she saw that An Jie could live in a spacious and bright house, wearing beautiful, new and fashionable clothes, and being respected, she couldn't help but be deeply attracted by this kind of life and full of yearning.
Just like An Jie is a gift from God, Ge Meixia is also determined to find the person who can change her fate, although she can't completely replicate An Jie's success, but she hopes to get closer.
Therefore, when Lao Ding appeared, Ge Meixia chose to join hands with him without hesitation, because Lao Ding was an officer and could bring her a better life. Although their relationship is not deep, this is not the key to Ge Meixia, the important thing is that the identity and status represented by Lao Ding can allow her to realize the ideal life in her heart.
When Ge Meixia decided on her marriage, she paid more attention to the improvement of material life and social status, rather than her feelings for the other party. Her understanding of love may be more realistic and rational, and she hopes to live a life like An Jie one day.
In this process, men are only the tools and means for her to realize her dreams, not the focus of her love life. This is Ge Meixia's outlook on life and values.
Ge Meixia won the most perfect ending in her life with a calm and independent attitude. Although she has experienced ups and downs in the first half of her life, she has never given up on her goals, always staying sober and actively looking for opportunities for change.
In the end, she got her wish and married the more powerful Wang Zhenbiao, and lived a happy life in her later years, reaching heights that many women could not reach. In contrast, other women are either tormented in life or still work hard in their old age, and they are unable to live as comfortably and calmly as Ge Meixia.
In essence, what Ge Meixia loves is actually an abstract ideal life, rather than a real individual like Lao Ding or Wang Zhenbiao. What she loves is a symbol, a possibility that can help her escape the constraints of fate.
It is precisely because of her inner independence and clear mind that Ge Meixia was able to finally realize her dream with the help of marriage in the extremely difficult environment of that era, and lived a brilliant life that surpassed other women of the same generation.