When interacting with people, you must look at his energy.
If you encounter the kind of contact with him and dealing with him, it will make you feel tired, make you lose money, affect your career, and delay your future.
As soon as you smell this low-energy smell, don't hesitate to stay away quickly.
Because such people have their own destructive tendencies, otherwise they will absorb your energy like vampires.
Like the devil, it will cause you endless trouble and lead you to the fire pit.
Don't put yourself under too much moral pressure.
Never be troubled by the heart of Our Lady and want to be the savior.
Because all the consequences must be borne by yourself.
Everyone is familiar with an example of a girlfriend who quarreled with her boyfriend, and she went to help, but she was killed.
That's why I don't advise everyone to interfere in someone else's marital issues.
After all, you're just an outsider.
You don't know the whole picture of their marriage, and you don't know the grievances between them.
If you're nosy, you'll just set yourself on fire.
Quarrels and violence between couples are often a form of emotional catharsis.
However, when you step in as an outsider, things get complicated.
You think you want to help them solve their problem, or stop them from continuing to argue.
But in their eyes, you could be the source of the problem.
They will think, why should you interfere in their private affairs?
Why are you on one side of this?
Who are you to judge them?
If there is a fierce quarrel between husband and wife, and the fight is inseparable, there is nowhere to vent the anger and evil spirit in the heart.
And you, the savior, come, and all the resentment and anger will be transferred to you, and you will become a scapegoat.
If you successfully mediate their conflict, they may thank you.
But if you fail, or if your intervention makes their contradictions even more intense, you become an unforgivable villain.
So, don't just interfere with everything else!
Talk about common examples from life.
If someone wants to talk to you about a misfortune in life, you have to refuse to do the tree hole, let alone make any suggestions, or they will blame you for any misfortune in the future.
The children of relatives, if they are admitted to college, they must apply for volunteers, and don't be stupid enough to blindly guide others with the big-tailed wolf, these lifelong events may reap the lifelong complaints and grudges of others.
The same goes for matchmakers. If you don't have anything to do, don't blindly introduce someone to someone. It will certainly end with not being human inside and out.
Good people are not so easy to be.
Wanting to help others, wanting to do good deeds, these are all right.
But you have to be clear that human nature does not eat this set.
For example, some people want to invest their money in private loans P2P. You want to convince them. If they think you want to stop them from getting rich, they will attack you like crazy. When you almost lose all your money, or go bankrupt, you know how to keep your wallet.
You know that the marriage that someone chooses is obviously a bottomless pit, but he has to jump into it, and then you have to convince that you will think that you want to prevent him from being happy.
Some people just like to buy all sorts of luxury goods, and you want to convince them that they think you want to stop them from pursuing fashion and taste. When the wallet is empty and starts to eat dirt, it naturally knows how to spend rationally.
People's vision is different, some people can only watch for a few days, some people can watch for years, and some people can see for decades.
For those who are short-sighted, what you need to do is not stop them from jumping into the pit.
On the contrary, let them fall enough on their own, and if they are in pain, they will naturally understand what to do.
Some people are destined to take time in exchange for wisdom, and if you can see through it, don't just pull it.
Otherwise, he will bite you and think that you are hindering his pace.
Everyone has their own karma and qi.
And this kind of gas number is accumulated from small to large for decades.
If a person does not have the will to change in his heart, it is useless for others to touch it.
Like a person who pretends to be asleep, you never wake him up.
Even if you wake him up again, it's still a question of whether he wants to wake up.
Because they live to sleep better, not to wake up.
How much merit does it take for a person to be awakened and to live soberly?
In the process of awakening, how much courage and wisdom do they have to keep from running away because of self-confinement?
How much mission and energy do you dare to wake up these sleeping people?
Even if you have the ability, it is impossible to wield a magic wand and enlighten him.
Many people are confused giant babies, lethargic and numb.
Only a few people are sober-minded and rational.
They are never awakened, but by themselves.
Before he is in pain, if you wake him up, he must think that there is something wrong with you.
It is only after the head is broken that they begin to reflect and are willing to change.
They couldn't listen to anyone's persuasion until they hit the south wall.
Because of their particular obsession, the awareness of certain things has become ingrained.
For these people, what they need is not guidance from a higher dimension.
Because their thinking has already formed formulas, your words are like the left ear in and the right ear out, and it is useless at all.
What they need is a more practical and direct way to redeem themselves – and that is to jump more ondols.
So, don't disturb other people's gas counts at will.
You think your advice can help them, but in fact, it only loses your own energy.
Everyone has their own path to follow, and everyone has their own karma and qi to bear.
The only thing we can do is be ourselves.