**Ten Thousand Fans Incentive Plan Why do you always feel bored in life? Why are others not as nice to you as you think?
If you want to raise your expectations of life and make others like you more than please others, you must refuse to choose low-cost people and things.
What do you mean? That is, your choices, actions, and life plans must have value and cost.
Otherwise, you will become a very cheap person and will naturally lose the attention and attraction of others.
The reality is that there are too many low-cost options, and that's the big problem to be solved first.
Because having more choices is not necessarily a good thing, maybe your own value is not high, so it will attract a lot of cheap people and things.
Just like shopping, everyone compares and ultimately chooses the best value for money.
So, you need to reflect on yourself why there are so many cheap people and things around you.
Maybe in the eyes of others, you are a low-value person.
For example, some girls will show off that they have many suitors. Do you seriously consider whether the suitor is successful or unsuccessful?
If you think about it, the people who pursue you are actually ordinary, and your choices are limited to these people, so what is there to be proud of?
As another example, some people say that if I want to change jobs, there will be many company options, but I don't want to change jobs.
So the question is, what level is acceptable to your company?
What about the salary?
What are the prospects and market competitiveness?
Does any of this match your ideas?
Is it demanding, or can anyone go?
If it's the latter, there's nothing to be happy about, all you can choose are low-level companies, and good companies don't look down on you at all, that's the truth.
Therefore, we must constantly improve our standards, we cannot compromise, whether it is life or work, we must choose high-quality objects.
There is an interesting riddle.
Say there's one thing, when you have three, it's three.
When you have two, it's two.
When you only have one, it's zero.
Have you guessed what this is?
The answer is choice.
It is only when you are faced with a variety of choices that you can truly have the freedom and space to choose.
However, many people will fall into the cognitive misunderstanding of choice, mistakenly thinking that they have many choices, but do not know that they have no choice.
For example, you want to relax yourself.
You might think of shopping, eating, traveling, playing games, and brushing up**.
There may seem to be a lot of options, but these are actually an option, essentially to get a cheap dopamine boost.
After a short period of happiness, there is endless emptiness and boredom.
You know why?
Because you always do the same thing, and it's easy to get, low-cost things, do more, and naturally feel that life is boring.
What are the really high-cost options?
Do you crave relaxation and at the same time a sense of accomplishment?
However, watching TV, playing games, and similar things don't meet this need.
In contrast, create a painting, open a company, let it earn hundreds of thousands a month, or increase your income by writing an article to make **, meet the spiritual needs of many people, and establish a high-quality love relationship with a high-quality object.
All of this requires hard work and relentless pursuit.
Especially it's harder to make money. Do you have what it takes to do that?
These are the really high-cost options, and the sense of accomplishment and satisfaction that comes from getting them done far outweighs the short-term pleasure of eating, drinking, and having fun.
So, this is also one of the biggest differences between rich and poor people.
Because what they do every day is completely different.
The rich are the ones who provide value and make money, while the poor are the ones who consume and enjoy.
If you want to be rich, you have to choose high-cost things to do and give up low-cost things.
Only by doing this, you can gradually become a person of **value.
If you keep doing cheap things, you will become cheap and easily satisfied.
On the contrary, those entrepreneurs and workaholics are not as unhappy as you think, they are happier than you and have a sense of accomplishment and happiness every day.
Watching your ideas gradually become a reality is definitely not comparable to those who are addicted to games and pleasures.
Also, strictly limit the people who have access to you to make yourself more precious.
Everyone is essentially a commodity.
If you want to get a commodity, you have to have the corresponding chips and capital.
For example, everyone aspires to be in a good company, has a good partner, and actually wants to be the best for themselves.
Packaging is a key skill for selling goods and building relationships.
In fact, low-priced items are more accessible and available everywhere.
The ** product is difficult to touch and even requires a special way of display.
Similarly, in interpersonal interactions, people with high status and wealth are more difficult to reach.
For example, Jack Ma, Warren Buffett, Musk and other top figures in the pyramid have very strict screening criteria, and they need to consider each other's assets, identity and interests.
On the contrary, people at the bottom of the pyramid have easy access to anyone.
And everyone can get together. There are no boundaries to ask for, and there is no sense of rejection. Others can even control them at will, known as tool people. Don't you think it's cheap?
The lack of strict screening conditions is the reason for staying at the bottom, and it is also the inevitable result.
So how do you break this vicious circle?
I think that unconventional means are needed, and even strong external interference.
For example, even if you are someone who earns a few thousand dollars a month, you should strictly limit your exposure.
For those who only want to get benefits from you, who want to steal your energy, be sure to reject them.
For those who come up to ask questions and want to ask you for help, don't let them control you at will and protect their energy field.
Always remember that you are a precious gift and should not be taken lightly.
If someone wants to go one step further with you, they have to pay accordingly.
People are cheap, don't take it for granted that you are embarrassed to refuse, help others, and others will appreciate you.
On the contrary, if you promise to help others without any conditions, you will only make others despise you, make you control you, and think that you are a cheap person.
That's what you really think about helping others for free.
If you want to be valued, you have to have more contact with good people, constantly improve your strength, and work hard in the field of your image and energy to surprise and excite others, just like winning big.