In the bustling city, we seem to be shrouded by an invisible pressure, which makes the original beautiful soul gradually lose its original light. Just like a flower, if it lacks sunlight and moisture for a long time, it will gradually wither. In this competitive and fast-paced era, how can we maintain peace and beauty in our hearts and regain that love of life?
Recently, a TV series called "Little Shede" has attracted a lot of attention. The play is based on the pressure of primary school students to go to school, and deeply analyzes the anxiety and struggle of modern families on education issues. Among them, there is a mother who will do whatever it takes to get her child into a prestigious school, and is even willing to sacrifice her career and marriage. Her mentality, from the initial firmness to the later anxiety and collapse, vividly shows the fragility of people's hearts under pressure.
1. Focus on intrinsic value and get rid of external constraints
As Mr. Yang Jiang said, "The beauty and evil of the soul are not reflected in the body." "We should not be swayed by the judgment of others, and we should not lose ourselves in order to meet the expectations of others. Miao Miao, the heroine of the movie "Fanghua", is sought after by everyone because of her outstanding dancing talent, but she always feels empty and confused in her heart. That is until she meets an equally talented dancer who shares a true artistic value that finally shines brightly on stage. This story tells us that only by focusing on inner values can we truly break free from external constraints and find our own happiness.
2. Learn to look down on gains and losses, and face life calmly
There will always be gains and losses in life, and the key is how we perceive those gains and losses. As Mr. Yang Jiang said: "The good things in the world are not strong, and the colorful clouds are easy to scatter and the glass is brittle." "All good things in life are short-lived, we need to learn to cherish the present moment, and at the same time, we should not be overly obsessed with gains and losses. In the TV series "The Legend of Zhen Huan", the heroine Zhen Huan gradually grew from a pure girl to a master of power and strategy. She has experienced countless gains, losses and grievances, but she has always maintained her inner calmness and calmness. Whether she is favored or loses power, she is able to deal with it calmly, and eventually becomes the most powerful woman in the harem. Only by learning to look down on gains and losses can we calmly face the ups and downs and changes of life.
3. Sincerely care for others and warm your heart
In this fast-paced society, people are getting farther and farther apart, and it's easy to lose sight of caring for others. However, as Mr. Yang Jiang said: "I am willing to be a 'zero', people don't treat me as a thing, I can just see through the people who look down on me." "If we can sincerely care for others, we can not only warm the hearts of others, but also make ourselves feel warmth and happiness. In the movie "The Melting Pot", the protagonist works hard to change the bullying behavior at school, although his efforts are not immediately reciprocated, but his persistence and dedication eventually affect the people around him, making them realize that their behavior is inappropriate and correct, and the protagonist also finds inner satisfaction and peace of mind. Sincere care for others can not only make others feel warm, but also allow us to achieve spiritual growth and growth.
Another movie, "Soul Station", tells the story of a lonely man in a deserted station and an old man who has lost his memory. Through mutual companionship and care, they gradually found the meaning and value of life. This movie makes us understand that in the trough of life, we need to learn to care for others, and at the same time, we also need the love of others in order to gradually get out of the spiritual dilemma.
In short, in the face of pressure and difficulties in life, we need to maintain inner peace and beauty, learn to pay attention to inner value, look down on gains and losses, and sincerely care for others. Only in this way can we regain our love of life and rejuvenate our souls. As Mr. Yang Jiang said, "The value of life lies in continuous growth and progress, not just the pursuit of material abundance." "Let's work together to feel the beauty of life with our hearts and inject more positive energy into the hearts of ourselves and others.