Recently, I saw a story that touched me deeply. The protagonist of the story is a young girl from Zhoukou, Henan Province, who has experienced a twist and turn in her life and finally found her own happiness.
This girl's family is good, and she spent more than 200,000 yuan on her self-built two-story building. She has a good looks, and she became the school flower because of her outstanding appearance in college. During college, she met a rich second-generation boyfriend, and the two fell in love. However, the relationship was not as rosy as she imagined.
After graduation, her boyfriend didn't want to get married, and even played missing, which made the girl very sad. After a long time, she found that her boyfriend already had a new love. In the end, the two broke up unhappily. Her boyfriend's words cut her heart like a knife, and she felt deeply hurt.
She was depressed and returned to her hometown for a blind date, but she didn't expect that there were a lot of blind dates, and it seemed that the charm of the beauty could not be stopped. After a period of adjustment, her mood has also improved. She posted online: "Who says I don't have anyone to want? You don't want to get married, more people want to marry me! ”
This story sparked heated discussions among netizens. Some people think that she is too floating, otherwise the marriage will be in vain; There are also people who support her attitude of daring to love and hate, thinking that she should not tie her future to an unreliable man. Some netizens lamented that the longer you talk about love, the more difficult it is to get married, and you can get engaged after a few blind dates, and life is really wonderful.
I think that whether you are in a relationship or on a blind date, the key is to be clear about what you want. Girls must understand that things such as appearance and passion are short-lived, and the most important thing is to find a reliable person. The advantage of blind date is that it is straightforward, both parties are for the purpose of marriage, and there is a lot less speculation and ambiguity.
Life is a constant process of choices and decisions. What kind of people we choose, what kind of life we choose. Character and personality are the cornerstones of the relationship and the key to determining the happiness of the marriage.
I would like to conclude by saying that marriage is a part of life and not the whole story. Happiness depends on two people working together. Don't lose faith in yourself because of a momentary loss. There is no banquet in the world that will not be dispersed, and there is no hurdle that cannot be overcome. Everyone deserves to be cherished and loved.