Do older single women really discredit the family?In 1983, a native of Jiangsu, undergraduate, stable job, car and house, some savings, no ex-boyfriend, no ex-husband, so far in perfect health. When I was single, my mother urged me to get married, and I almost became mentally ill!
Luckily, in my fourth year of work, I bought a house on my own and moved out. But even that didn't stop my mother from frantically urging her to get married.
Last Sunday, my mother said there was something going on at home and asked me to go back. Unexpectedly, after returning home, before eating, she said to me solemnly: you are 38 years old, almost 40 years old. Some people your age have gone to grandma or grandmotherhood, and some children have gone to college. Even if they get married late, they will play soy sauce. What about you. People who are almost 40 years old are still yellow flower girls. You see, I'm almost 70 years old now, and my body is getting worse every year. If I die, I can't swallow this breath! If you continue like this, you will really be ashamed of our family.
I was used to her persuasion, but when I saw the tears and disappointment in her eyes, I almost broke down. My mother has aged a lot in recent years. She tried her best to get someone to help me find someone, but she failed. I know she's worried, but marriage isn't child's play. What can I do if fate doesn't come! Should I have wronged myself in order to cater to my mother's psyche?
After more than a dozen blind dates, I saw men's greed, temporary happiness and freshness, babysitting for children and parents... I didn't meet anyone who really wanted to make friends, and I'm still looking forward to it. I even thought that the lover of my dreams was about to appear. Like me, he doesn't have so much benefit and is not so greedy. He just wants to find true feelings and spend the rest of his life together.