Kindness is a beautiful quality, but being too kind and being kind to others without a bottom line will not only hurt yourself, but also make yourself the object of use by others. Therefore, it is necessary to bring a bit of edge in kindness.
First of all, the edge is a necessary means of self-protection. In interpersonal interactions, some people will take advantage of your kindness and trust to hurt you. If you don't have a sharp edge, they will constantly encroach on your bottom line and put you in pain and trouble. Therefore, when interacting with people, you need to maintain a certain degree of vigilance, do not easily trust the words of others, and do not easily disclose your personal information and privacy. When you meet people with bad intentions, you need to use sharp language and a firm attitude to show your position and bottom line, and let them know that you are not a bully.
Secondly, the edge is the embodiment of self-worth. Everyone has their own dignity and worth, and if you don't have a sharp edge in interpersonal interactions, others will think that you don't have your own ideas and values, and thus despise you. Therefore, you need to show your worth and position through your attitude and behavior to let others know that you are not a person who can be manipulated at will. When interacting with people, you need to have your own principles and bottom line, and don't give up your own principles because of other people's demands. When encountering unreasonable requests, you need to firmly refuse, and explain your reasons and positions, so that others know your value and irreplaceability.
Finally, the edge is the regulator of relationships. In interpersonal communication, sometimes there will be some contradictions and frictions, if you are not sharp, others may think that you are weak and deceitful, so as to infringe on your rights and interests more unscrupulously. Therefore, when encountering contradictions and frictions, you need to solve them in a suitable way. When dealing with problems, you need to stay calm and rational and not lose your temper or argue easily. When communicating with others, you need to express your opinions and requirements in tactful language and ways to let others know what you think and stand. When faced with unsolvable problems, you need to learn to give up and compromise, and not to be overly entangled and demanding.
In short, kindness with a little edge is an important attitude towards life. Only kindness with a sharp edge is true kindness, and only then can you be truly happy and satisfied with yourself and others. Therefore, we need to be vigilant in our interpersonal interactions, show self-worth and regulate interpersonal relationships, so that our kindness can shine a little bit. At the same time, we should also remind ourselves not to pursue perfection too much and care too much about other people's evaluations, learn to think independently and stand firm in our own positions, so that our lives can be more fulfilling and meaningful. February** Dynamic Incentive Program
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